met a guy, too soon?

[alone_confused]

Hi all,

 

As most of you know my bf of 3.5years left me nearly a month ago, i miss him as a person etc, but i did come to realise that we would never get back together again, even if that is something he wanted.

 

Now the problem, I'm not sure if i am over thinking this or not, but i went out last night with a small group of friends, I was actually looking forward to going out all week, not like the other times when i was sad, didn't really want to go, i was really looking forward to have Christmas drinks with my friends, it was great to feel happy about it.

 

Had a great night, i had no intention on meeting anyone, but i guess you never do, there was a guy there, a friend of a friend, as soon as he arrived i was instantly attracted to him, after an hour or so he came and spoke to me, we talked for a good four hours, the more i spoke to him the more i was attracted to him, he was being nice saying all the flattering things every girl wants to hear, but it wasn't just that, even just talking, we got each other, if you know what i mean.

 

It ended with a kiss and a exchange of numbers, i explained to him that I'm just fresh out of a relationship and I'm not sure, he was understanding and said we could just take things really slowly, just go out to dinner or something, spend some time getting to know each other, he called me today to see if i got home okay, and to tell me he had a great evening.

 

I really like him, i really want to see him again, I'm not sure what to do, is it to soon? will it be a rebound?

 

your advice would be great

Thanks

[Surfer Dude]

Like he said, take it real slow. Don't use this new relationship as means of forgetting previous one.

 

Don't miss out on this opportunity to be happy with someone. You never know, it could be beginning of a wonderful new relationship. Just take it easy and relax.

[LiveandLearn]

Go out and have fun! Don't expect anything. Don't force anything. Don't over-analyze anything. And just have fun! You owe it to yourself to have fun.

[Jenny123]

Some relationships do start this way. my advice take it slowwwwwwwwwwww. If I meet someone, i'd take it slow this time, including sex, mixed feelings from sex- only complicating. Good for you, enjoy;)

[EmperorR]

Like he said, take it real slow. Don't use this new relationship as means of forgetting previous one.

 

Don't miss out on this opportunity to be happy with someone. You never know, it could be beginning of a wonderful new relationship. Just take it easy and relax.

 

Agree, I met a new girl I'm I 100% sure I'm over my ex nope I'm not. But I'm I going to give up going out with this new girl when she's nice and I have so much things in common NOPE. Just take it slow.

[californiadreaming]

I agree that you need to take this one slow. Simple as that.