crackerjax9 Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 like say he texts me saying merry christmas.. do i not even respond or should i be nice and say thank you...
audrey_1 Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 I'm also wondering this. He went so far as to ask for my address, saying he wanted to send me a Christmas gift. If he texts you, just say thanks, you too. No reason not be nice, I guess. Only do it if you're okay with no other texts coming after that. And you don't send another one, either.
EmperorR Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 I'm not, I know she won't most likely but I'm not replying if she does. I owe her nothing, and no it's not mean because I know if I say thanks you to, then she will message how are you etc. I don't need the cheat sympathy or her thinking of me.
darnay Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 My ex can't text me but still managed to send me a christmas card on which he wrote that hoped it was feeling better after my recent back operation and hoped I would one day find it in my heart to forgive him, happy christmas blah blah blah.. I cried when I opened it. I've been NC for 3 months now, but it still hurt. He's not getting a reply. My friend said at least he was thinking about you, but he wasn't, I know him too well. He was thinking about himself, trying to salve his guilt. If he really cared for me he wouldn't have contacted me or sent a card..
alphamale Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 like say he texts me saying merry christmas.. do i not even respond or should i be nice and say thank you... it depends, if you left him then you can respond. if he left you then you would not respond in any way
silverbunny Posted December 22, 2008 Posted December 22, 2008 it depends, if you left him then you can respond. if he left you then you would not respond in any way yea i agree. i think it depends on how good of terms things were when you broke up too. like me and my ex talk pretty regularly, actually. im fine with him having someone else in his life. so things are pretty ok for me and him. but if i was in a relationship, where say, we fought bitterly and things ended very badly, then no. i wouldn't. that's just my take and how i would handle it.
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