crackerjax9 Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 havent talked ot my guys since wed...he keeps texting me gay things like goodmorning goodnight good afternoon...if he does it tonight should i just call him and tell him to leave me alone til he grows up cuz its getting in the way of me getting over him? idk help & suggestions pleasee
Ronni_W Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 Can you block his texts, calls, emails, etc? Calling him might just make him feel like he's "won the battle" -- as you say, he sounds a bit too immature...I wouldn't bother to get in touch with him cos he pro'ly wouldn't listen, anyway, and might also feel smug about his perceived "victory". Hugs and good luck...I know it's tough to deal with "children" What can we do, huh?
Author crackerjax9 Posted December 21, 2008 Author Posted December 21, 2008 see i kind of like seeing that hes thinking about me by texting me but i want him to know im not joking around and if he doesnt shape up then im completley done with him.. so what do i do
Ronni_W Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 I guess you have to do the more mature thing and choose one or the other -- block him or put up with ALL his juvenile antics. (And if you choose to NOT block him, you also are giving up the right to complain about his crap and his annoying texts...that's just a fact of life.) What are the chances that you're giving yourself, for him to "shape up" anytime soon?
Jay34 Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 my ex broke up with me once, after 2 days she couldn't take it anymore, i went back way too soon and that was after 2 weeks, she never gave me a real apology, i got a half ass one, and after 2.5 months we are apart again , this time because she kept telling me things she was going to do and never did them, she was very inconsistent, i think you need to wait it out, see what he does if you don't feed into his crap, he may be overly nice, or he may turn sour, maybe you will see his real intent, the only thing he should be doing is apologizing and saying i understand you need time to think, my ex sent me a message 4 days ago, how she missed our conversations and that she was there if i wanted to talk, this is after at first she put a picture up of a new guy on myspace, then a bulletin that she was having a great time, then she started the nice stuff, the messages, the old jokes. then back to the mean removing from friends on myspace. wait around a bit longer, if you really have something a couple of weeks will not ruin it, see what he does, if you don't see a real change don't bother, you will waste even more time, you don't want someone who keeps hurting you and thinks that they can just come right back. You have to have boundaries or else you won't be respected, Don't give him the benefit of the doubt to know that it's bothering you, wait till he approaches you in a mature way, that may never happen. If it does i would listen, but if you decide to try it again go slow, and if you see it happen again, make the tough decision of leaving forever.
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