foxh1234 Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 Hi folks, I just wanted to wish everyone a great holiday season and let you all know that you will get better. It has been 9 + months since the break up and I feel great now. Once I accepted things for what they were and forgave her in my heart, everything fell into place for me. I will always remember the good times and I wish her well. You will all get there, trust me. It will just take time and acceptance. I hope 2009 is the best year ever for all of you.
kizik Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 Hey man, merry Christmas to you too. Glad you're feeling good. Josh
inulg Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 happy holidays to youtoo!! It's great to see you've recovered! I'm hoping i'll get there one day (i'm definitely 85% of the way there already!) It's great that even after you recovered you posted on here to encourage the rest of us that we'll eventually be OK too!!
Lizzie60 Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 Merry Christmas to everyone who's hurting right now And what if we're not hurting? Merry Christmas to you too.. anyway..
Author foxh1234 Posted December 21, 2008 Author Posted December 21, 2008 Merry Christmas to everyone who's hurting right now And what if we're not hurting? Merry Christmas to you too.. anyway.. LOL, I would like to amend my earlier post to include people who are not hurting. Happy Holidays to everyone, I guess that's what I'm trying to say.
Author foxh1234 Posted December 21, 2008 Author Posted December 21, 2008 Hey man, merry Christmas to you too. Glad you're feeling good. Josh Thanks buddy. I know 2009 will be alot better for both of us. It could not be any worse.
Crazy.S Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 thanks man, you too. glad to hear some good progress. lets enjoy the holidays and look forward to a better year.
orangehose Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 Merry Xmas to you, too. Your positive attitude and levelheadedness were an inspiration to me, and I'm sure, to many others on this board. I'm glad to hear you're continuing to do well.
Meaplus3 Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 Merry Christmas to you Fox and wishes for a Happy new year. Mea:)
EmperorR Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 yep, just going to suck being alone on christmas n christmas eve
kizik Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 Ah, next year will be better. Life is one big cycle.
ioncebelieved Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 Merry Christmas to all my friends on here too!! Looks like I will be staying home this Christmas, I just come down with the flu!!! Man I will be glad when this year is finally over and maybe 2009 will be better. 2008 was one of the worst in my life! Been away for a while, but will pop back in some time.
LiveandLearn Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 Happy Holidays everyone! Let us toast to a better year next year! Don't let a broken heart stop you from living a good life. Be happy with yourself, because in the end you're the one that has to live with yourself.
smiiiley Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 Happy Holidays! Although I don't even have a tree this year...lol...but sometimes I get this hopeful feeling inside of me that things will get better someday...something has to give i tell myself...things have to get better somewhow.
Author foxh1234 Posted December 21, 2008 Author Posted December 21, 2008 Happy Holidays! Although I don't even have a tree this year...lol...but sometimes I get this hopeful feeling inside of me that things will get better someday...something has to give i tell myself...things have to get better somewhow. Things will get better for sure. Things turned around for me when I started to think of all the great things I had in my life instead of thinking about the one thing I didn't have- ( her ). Life gets better when we let it, I think. I for one am going to make 2009 the best year I have ever had. See you next year everyone, I'm jumping on a plane in 2 hours. Peace
Ingenue Posted December 22, 2008 Posted December 22, 2008 Happy Holidays everybody. While most of us here found 2008 to be emotionally difficult because of a variety of circumstances, at least we have 2009 to look forward to. Here's to a year with new hope, new life and new love
CaliGuy Posted December 22, 2008 Posted December 22, 2008 Back at you, Fox. 2009 is already shaping up to be a good year for me, for sure
DeepInThought Posted December 24, 2008 Posted December 24, 2008 I was just thinking about my ex girlfriend today.. Very special person to me whom i miss very much. We broke up this time last year and after some months things ended once again in a hostile argument from both sides after she called me, lots of game playing, attempted baiting on her part (as Caliguy says) and "maybe lets be friends" - stuff that!.. Never a nice feeling. She was in Germany i am in Australia, although i did live in Germany for a year so yes a big commitment distance wise. But just now i was watching the Victoria Secrets Fashion show and i'm thinking to myself... "you know what, life aint so bad!" There are so many beautiful , amazing women out there and "i'm" available to meet them... so i've won the lottery!! But big thing to do is hit the gym and train hard... Learn new skills and enjoy life. I have followed Caliguy's advice here quite a bit, yes i have made mistakes along the way but it's all the learning curve. I bought the No more Mr. Nice Guy book and make it a point to read the rules everyday. I am meeting new women and i never compare... ever! Everyone deserves a clean slate... But would i go back? No i have seen a side of her that frankly i didn't think existed.. Never wake the sleeping dragon as they say! But thankyou Caliguy, for you guidance and support, it is greatly appreciated. I almost forgot i managed to get myself a new custom set of Callaway irons and Taylormade Burner TP driver and got my handicap back down to 10 so very very happy about that... My friend is a nurse in the Oncology unit of a childrens hospital, you think you have problems? I can tell you now once you go for a walk around there a broken heart is nothing, i mean nothing compared to these little kids problems.. Some of them will never live past 2 y/o..... So i said if the worst i got was a broken heart, then i'm bloody lucky! I walked out of there in tears.... That is a wake-up call! Cheers and merry xmas from Sunny Sydney, Australia!!
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