tuscansun Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 Not to sound like a smartass, but are you an approachable dude? I mean are you nice? I just started dating after a really long relationship and Ive been learning a lot about the 'courting world'. Ive agreed to go out with a few guys because they were cute or funny and Im really easy going and talkative but there have been a few guys that either just go on and on about themselves and don't let me get a word in edgewise and somewhere in the date theyll be like, 'wow youre quiet' and I just wanna be like, wow, ya think, or Ill meet a guy whose so quiet that I get uncomfortable. Its all about balance...
wierdmunky Posted December 27, 2008 Posted December 27, 2008 I kind of have the same prob with my bf. Sometimes I just feel that we don't have enough in common, but the interest is there, and otherwise he would be perfect. How long have you been seeing eachother?
Author TheTallOne Posted December 28, 2008 Author Posted December 28, 2008 Not to sound like a smartass, but are you an approachable dude? I mean are you nice? I just started dating after a really long relationship and Ive been learning a lot about the 'courting world'. Ive agreed to go out with a few guys because they were cute or funny and Im really easy going and talkative but there have been a few guys that either just go on and on about themselves and don't let me get a word in edgewise and somewhere in the date theyll be like, 'wow youre quiet' and I just wanna be like, wow, ya think, or Ill meet a guy whose so quiet that I get uncomfortable. Its all about balance... Well. I can be a bit uncomfortable to approach, as I have been told. Being over 6'2", makes me a bit... intimidating. I don't go on, and on about myself. I tend to ask questions of the person I am with, and the only reason I talk is to make connection with what they're saying about a specific subject. I am a "nice guy", but I am not a push over. I do things for people all the time, but generally because I want too, not because I am being forced into doing it. Make sense?
Author TheTallOne Posted December 28, 2008 Author Posted December 28, 2008 I kind of have the same prob with my bf. Sometimes I just feel that we don't have enough in common, but the interest is there, and otherwise he would be perfect. How long have you been seeing eachother? I haven't officially being seeing her (this way anyway). I have known her for a couple years, our conversation/activities together just picked up in the last few months. We have a lot in common (music taste, activities, general outlook at life etc.), and there definitely seems to be a bit of chemistry between us. At least that is my impression. But for a girl that txts me generally every day, is willing to go out and do things together all the time (movies, drinks, concert) etc., she is obviously showing more interest than just friends? Especially if it just a 1:1 thing.
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