daisydufas22 Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 Hello:) I went out with this guy and he compared me to his ex-girlfriends..... mainly just to illustrate that I wasn't as good as them. For example, he would say his ex g/friend had a kind heart, unlike me....things like that. Before all this started happening, I brought him some chocolates (just for a gift) and he was annoyed because he did not want to eat chocolate (even though he bought it reguarly for himself). I said sorry and that I would not do it again. Then 2 weeks later he starts telling me how sweet his ex g/friend (another one) was because she used to buy him chocolates. I tried researching why people compare other people in a negative light but I cannot come up with any answers! Does anyone know why people compare other people? I just need to resolve this in my head.....if that makes sense? Additionally, just wondering if this has happened to anyone else? I have asked people and everyone has told me this has never happened to them! Thanks!!!
samspade Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 He is immature, and probably engaging in psychological warfare on you in hopes that your self-esteem is low enough that you'll be duped by all of this. Comparing the one whose company you're sharing with exes is amateur and pathetic. If I were you, I'd tell him that since you're not "good enough" for him, you should go your separate ways. He can go back to his exes if that's what he wants.
Recommended Posts