Irregular Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 My gf broke up with me six months ago. At the time, she just stopped talking to me and practically disappeared. We had dated for about a year. We had no contact until November. Then, one morning, she sent me a text asking "how r u?" and we texted back and forth for a bit.She said she thought about me a lot but didn't know quite what to think. She also told me where she was working now. A few days later, I sent her a text asking if she could recommend any new music to me (obviously trying to keep the communication going.) She replied with a CD name. All the songs on it were about lost love and being sorry. I told her I liked the CD and she responded with some lyrics about "can't be as sorry as u think I should" and "I still love u more than anyone else could." Then, no contact for a week. So, I stopped by the restaurant where she works one night. She seemed glad to see me and kind of nervous. After her shift, we got a drink and talked for a long time. She complimented me a lot (love your shirt, that kind of thing) We laughed quite a bit. She mentioned that she was going on vacation for a week; but "had nothing to do" after. I had made her a mix-CD of some songs that we liked together and gave it to her before I left. She gets back from vacation tomorrow. I haven't heard from her while she's been gone. It sure seems that she wants to get back together with me; but I know that I can't take it too fast with her. I think that one of the reasons we broke up was that she was scared of getting too serious and she had a lot of problems in her personal life at the time. I really love her and I've been sick without her. It doesn't seem like she's just playing games. What's the best way to go forward from here? Thanks in advance for your suggestions.
againstallodds Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 You can't be sure until she talk about the relationship. If she started to talk about it and want another chance I think you should think about the problem and reason why you two broke up and talk about that first. I think it's important. I got back with my exes a few times but we never talk about what went wrong and that's the mistake. You tend to forget what went wrong lol. Anyways that's my 2 cents.
saturnfell Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 I hope you know you're very lucky. Many people, each day, wish they could have an opportunity like you have. Take it slow, don't rush. You've been given a very special opportunity, cherish it. That's the best advice I can give you. Best of luck. Let us know how it goes!
BackonTrack2 Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 i dunno, something is odd... she just stop talking to you out the blue??? my girl did that, come to find out she was ****ing someone.... why did she stop talking to you out the blue???? don't be to happy, i would want to know why she stoped talking to you in the first place... and then how you know she won't do it again?
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