TheRock Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 My GF of 2 1/2 years used to be playful, sexy, dress in sexy lingere for bed, etc. Lately, it's like she's too comfortable with things (along with other circumstances going on). How do I get her to "loosen up" again?
Kamille Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 Take her out on a romantic date? Give her plenty of notice so that she can have time to 'sexy' herself up. Romance is something that happens between two people - so set the mood and she's likely to go for it. Also, ooh look, Christmas is right around the corner! Why not buy her sexy lingerie?
Lizzie60 Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 How about a card with this written in it: My GF of 2 1/2 years used to be playful, sexy, dress in sexy lingere for bed, etc. Lately, it's like she's too comfortable with things (along with other circumstances going on). How do I get her to "loosen up" again? .. and.. of course.. with your real name.. Nothing like good communication my friend...
Author TheRock Posted December 20, 2008 Author Posted December 20, 2008 I've tried that before. Today, out of the blue, she called me and said she's going through "some hormonal thing" or something and is being a complete bitch to everyone. Her mom yelled in the background "Isn't that the truth"! She said she hasn't gotten her period in 2 months, took a preg test and isn't preg. She's been messed up since she went on this pill a year and a half ago and ALSO has a family history of Early Menopause. She's going to be 32 in March. She apologized to me today. Am I to believe this is the reason behind her attitude? Could it be the pill?
Author TheRock Posted December 20, 2008 Author Posted December 20, 2008 I've tried the Lingere thing and she hasn't worn any of the stuff I bought her in a while. Tough to even get her to want to leave the house. It's like Jekyll and Hyde. Sometimes she's into it, other\most times not. I bought her a silk camisole in August and STILL haven't seen it on her! She's been Jekyll and Hyde since about 2 months after she switched BC pills. As for the Diamond Ring...Again, she was all into the relationship and a future together till she switched pills. Since she doesn't bleed regularly, she is always moody flip flopping moods. Now, she freaks if I talk about a future. We only talk about it if SHE brings it up somehow.
Rebellious Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 My GF of 2 1/2 years used to be playful, sexy, dress in sexy lingere for bed, etc. Lately, it's like she's too comfortable with things (along with other circumstances going on). How do I get her to "loosen up" again? I hear that most marriages are that way, maybe that's why women want you on a marriage contract so that you can't back out, j/k! I had a g/f that wasn't very sexy, but I still liked her, she loved kissing & cuddling and was very affectionate otherwise. I told her I was fine with it and that I wasn't looking for a p0rn queen, but she still felt inadequate. I think Kamille above has a good idea.
movingonandon Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 I hear that most marriages are that way, maybe that's why women want you on a marriage contract so that you can't back out, j/k!. When (if ever) I get married, i'm totally *backing out* of this contract - through all legal (and illegal) means - if my wife pulls this crap.
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