zilverenvlinder Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 After two years together, I feel so used and thrown out. This morning, at 4:00 AM, I couldn't take it anymore. I had to make sure my animals were ok. (My ex, let's just call him Jackass, and I still have all of our stuff in the apartment. He lives there until the end of the month and then I'm moving out.) He is a drunkard and has a gambling problem, so I was really worried especially about our little dog. So I get in my car, I drive to the apartment complex, and his car is gone. I walk upstairs and the dog is gone. My cat is still there, roaming around, unfazed. I think, "Phew, all is well, he's probably at his friend John's with the dog." I'm about to leave and go back to my mom's (where I'm staying for right now), and something in my head tells me to check the answering machine. So I did. I pulled up the recently deleted messages and this is what I get: "December 19th at 6:45 PM: HEY (JACKASS), THIS IS SANDY, JUST CALLING YOU BACK, DO YOU WANT TO MEET AT (THIS BAR)? YOU CAN GO BACK AFTERWARD AND BRING YOUR DOG TO MY HOUSE LATER IF YOU WANT! OK BYE HON!" Oh. My. God. That swindling, shady little pervert. I am in complete and total shock. He was probably cheating on me the whole time, while I was completely unaware and continued to buy him groceries, feed him, take care of him, clean up after him, and help him pay his FRICKING CAR PAYMENT because of his GAMBLING PROBLEM. I am so angry right now and so freaking horribly sad at the same time. All the while, he keeps getting promoted and I keep going on verbal warnings for my sales performance. I keep going to the bar and get all gussied up and not get ONE SINGLE look from the male species and he's got fricking skanks calling OUR phone, the one that I PAY FOR!! This is the biggest crock of bullsh** I have ever experienced. WHERE THE HELL IS KARMA!!! I don't want to toot my own horn, but I am a GREAT PERSON!! and terrible things keep happening to me and he is LIVING LIKE A KING while being a cheating little liar who has a son that he deletes voicemails from and hasn't seen in eight months! A cheating little bastard who lies to everyone in his life and talks crap about all of his friends and still gets EVERYTHING HANDED TO HIM ON A SILVER PLATTER! WHERE IS KARMA?!?! PLEASE PLEASE I need some support right now.
hereandnow Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 Ouch, ouch, ouch. I know something like that would throw me for a major loop. I saw my ex gf with someone else tonight, well last night, and it threw me. You're not alone with your feelings. Can I ask you how long it's been since ya'll broke up? What are you planning on doing until the end of the month, and what's going to happen to the pets? Take care, my heart goes out to you!
LouiseC Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 Awww hun, I'm sorry your ex is an arsehole - mine is too. I believe in Karma too, and I truly believe that one day my ex will get what's coming to him - just as I'm sure yours will. It may not be right away, but one day it will happen. Hopefully the cheating bastards dicks will fall off! You however, need to start thinking positively - believe me I know it's easier said than done, but it really does help. If you think terrible things keep happening to you and that they're always going to, then they probably will. Concentrate on yourself for a change, take care of yourself and believe in yourself. And stop paying the bills!!! If he can't pay them tough ****. Take care xx
FindingMyselfAgain Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 I am in complete and total shock. He was probably cheating on me the whole time, while I was completely unaware and continued to buy him groceries, feed him, take care of him, clean up after him, and help him pay his FRICKING CAR PAYMENT because of his GAMBLING PROBLEM. The very best thing that has EVER happened to you, BAR NONE, on this or any other planet in this or any other galaxy, is that this guy found some other woman to victimize. Consider yourself lucky, blessed, and that your cash-out cost was so low.
EmperorR Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 Nothing worse than knowing you were cheated on especially when you did everything for the cheat. But what goes around.
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