crackerjax9 Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 okay so i was seeing this guy for about a year and in the beginning when we were just hooking up he was sooo sweet .. then we became official and basically from the beginning we were fighting over silly thigns...we broke up about 5 times for a few days the 6 months that we have dated...one of those times we broke up for about a week and i didnt talk to him for a bout a week and he went crazyyy.. flowers and all...we got back together but things still kept going bad then getting good then going bad again..the reason why we broke up this time was because he was hanging around a crowd of girls that i dont like and didnt respect the fact that i didnt want him hanging around them.. he would call me names like whore stupid psycho everything.. he didnt give a**** about my feelings i felt like...so we broke up and i havent contacted him for 2 days.. hes been texting me every day but i havent been responding.. if i dont contact him do you think theres a chance that hell whip into shape and realize hes being an idiot? idk this is hard someone help me out:confused:
Dmoney28 Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 how old are you guys? this guy sounds like a jerk...a immature jerk at that. The only thing i can say is do you enjoy all this drama? Seems like too much back and forth. You guys dont sound ready for a Serious relationship. I would go NC for 2 weeks. If he's still around, express your concerns and make it clear what YOU want from the relationship.
Author crackerjax9 Posted December 21, 2008 Author Posted December 21, 2008 i have told him what i wanted before...were in college...also he keeps texting me is it okay to break no contact to tell him to leave me alone til he grows up?
Jay34 Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 the best way to tell him is by saying nothing, you are already seeing a pattern, up and down, if it is like this now its not going to get any better, even if it appears too, it is probably just an act, you are probably better off moving on.
Author crackerjax9 Posted January 12, 2009 Author Posted January 12, 2009 sooo i did the no contact thign for like 5 days.. promised he would get better... we were good for a week everything went fine up until new years and he started a fight...weve basically been fighting every other day since then... then last night he went to one of his friends parties which his ex was prob going to be at... i got really upset over it then grew up and realized if he knew i was jealous it would push him away.. so i told him to check in with me... he calls me at 1230 for 3 seconds saying hes going to call me right back...hour and half passes and i decide to call him i ask him why he didnt call me and hes like shut the f up... in front of all his friends nonetheless...hangs up on me...i text him saying are u kidding f u! and go to bed....calls me at 2am i dont pick up...texts me today asking why i wasbeing crazy last night and i explained why.. didnt call me all day i had to call him tonight to try to talk... instead he says hes going to nap and call me when hes done napping... i dont no what to do my birthday is coming up and id hate to be heartbroken then..
Eyeofthoth Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 You're joking, right? He said he'd call back. He didn't, so you called him and asked him why he had not called, and he told you to shut the f up? . . . Then he asked you why you were being crazy? Run. Run for your life.
D-Lish Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 After reading this and the other thread, I'd say dump this jerk. If it were me, I'd never put up with someone telling to shut the f up- in public or private. He's an idiot, he's immature. He's not going to change.
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