Murphy08 Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 I met this guy on a holiday with my mum. He works on the island and so at first I didn't even consider liking him. Plus, he is 5 years older than me as I am 18 and he is 23. He took me out on a horse ride and it was just the two of us but this was me booking it through the island. As soon as we got talking I realised that I had never met anyone like him before and that we had so much in common. Talking with him was so easy and flowing and even in silence we were comfortable around each other. After that we started hanging out heaps, he took me jet skiing and fishing at sunset and then we spent hours lying on the beach at night talking about everything and anything. He even saw me off at the airport. The night on the beach it was just us and we got talking about relationships, I already knew he had a girlfriend so he asked me about my relationship status. I am single so I told him that and he said well you could get anyone you wanted. He also said that now that he has a girlfriend, he has realised that opportunities have come up and that there is temptation that he could be just as happy with someone else. He also said that he would never cheat on his girlfriend because he has been cheated on before and would never do that to someone. I love the fact that he is so loyal and caring and he is such a unique guy and I think this conversation had subtle hint that he liked me. I know there was a connection between us but I just don't know what to do. Even though I only hung out with him for about 4 days, I have this unexplainable feeling within me that he is my soul mate. I just can't believe that of all the circumstances in the world that he has to have a girlfriend. I am going back to the island to visit the people up there I made friends with including him but his girlfriend recently went up there to work with him. I'm not sure whether or not I should talk to him about how I feel or not because I do want him to be happy but I know that I will regret it if I just don't say anything and think about what could have been. Nothing has happened between us because neither of us would ever do anything with someone who is in a relationship but I really would love to be able to call him my own someday. I can't stop thinking about him and when I do I get this feeling of intense happiness at the memories but also sadness at the fact he is with his girlfriend and I can't see him. He also told me that when he met his current girlfriend that she had a boyfriend and that she tried to kiss him while she was still in a relationship. He stopped her and said if we were to get together would you do this to me? I'm not sure if his girlfriend is completely faithful and he didn't really want to talk about her much so I'm confused about whether he's happy or not. We have stayed in contact but now I need advice on what to do. Does he have feelings for me? Would me telling him how I feel complicate things or would it be a good thing to do? I just don't know.... I'm sorry that this is long but I would really appreciate your help
Author Murphy08 Posted December 21, 2008 Author Posted December 21, 2008 Could someone please respond and help me out??
catastrophe Posted December 23, 2008 Posted December 23, 2008 It's a nice fantasy for you, but sounds unrealistic. You found an older, charming, spoken for man while in an exotic locale far from home. Go masturbate, and then find someone closer to home who is not in a relationship.
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