InnocentBystander Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 I've been seeing the same girl for several months. We see each other a time or two a week and she tells me she really likes me. A few days ago we are out together and discussing plans for later this week. We were planning on hanging out with some friends on one of a few days and had been meaning to spend a day watching Christmas movies together. I say "After were're done hanging out with everyone else you can stay over and then in the morning we could start our movie day. Does that sound good?" She nods and replies with a "Yeah, okay." We then talk a little bit about some of the movies we should watch before conversation goes elsewhere. A couple days later I bring the same thing up to confirm our plans, asking if she plans on staying over that night. She gets offended claiming that I am now assuming that she is staying over for the night without even having asked her about it and then cancelling all of what I thought had already been set in motion as plans. When I try to tell her that I had mentioned it and thought she already was aware of the potential plans a couple days ago she tells me that I was not clear enough. She just gets more upset and doesn't want to talk about it. Is she right that I was not clear or was I insensitive about any of this? I felt that she was overreacting a bit, but she thought the way I went about it was stupid. I've invited her to stay over before and she has several times, so it's not anyting new. I'm just confused and don't really understand why I got such a harsh reaction.
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