Sweetthing812 Posted December 19, 2008 Posted December 19, 2008 My name is Amy and I am 20 years old i was dating a guy for awhile that I truly loved. Unfortunatly he has this friend that is a woman and she absolutly hates me she wont give me a reason why she just does. Anyway two days ago we decided to spend some time apart because he said it was to much stress to have to hear her all the time complaining about me. I have tried to make friends with her many times but with no luck. I desperatly want him back and I would do anything to get him back. Any body got any advice.
tomswife Posted December 19, 2008 Posted December 19, 2008 Did he break up with you just because his friend didn't like you? If so, this guy is just not in to you or he would leave his friend and keep you.
PrincessPeach Posted December 19, 2008 Posted December 19, 2008 It sounds to me like your guy has some feelings for his female friend. She probably doesn't want to return the feelings romantically, but likes having him around because she knows he sort of likes her; her own little ego boost and person she can cry to but not have to sleep with. And even though she won't go out with him, she doesn't want him going out with anyone else. She is using him and, because on some level he likes her, he is blind to that fact. It's not that she doesn't like you. She doesn't like what you being there does to her and his friendship/relationship to one another. It will happen with any other girl he would date. It's something he and/or she has to learn and live with. She (and therefore he) thinks its a problem with you, when really it's a problem with both of them and they don't stop to look at themselves in the mirror. I'd try to forget about him unless he comes to his senses.
Author Sweetthing812 Posted December 20, 2008 Author Posted December 20, 2008 Hey everyone thanks for your help. I guesse eventually he will come to his senses or I will move on. It just hurts because he says he still cares about me it is just to hard to argue with her all the time. I guesse if he really cared for me it wouldn't have come to this. But thanks for all your support.
Javelin Posted December 22, 2008 Posted December 22, 2008 Hey everyone thanks for your help. I guesse eventually he will come to his senses or I will move on. It just hurts because he says he still cares about me it is just to hard to argue with her all the time. I guesse if he really cared for me it wouldn't have come to this. But thanks for all your support. F- him, you're only 20, you can find someone better!
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