serenitylies Posted December 19, 2008 Posted December 19, 2008 I havent got a clue of what to do with my love life. Half of me wants to be open to the guy I am seeing, but the other half doesnt want to. I want the one I love, but I cant have him. And I deserve to be happy with the one I am seeing right now, but Im not. I want to be single, but then at the same time, I want to have someone be there to hold me and kiss me. I want to be able to flirt around, because that is the person I am, if I am not committed. I want to be able to go to clubs and parties and not have a care of what happens if I get drunk. But I am already seeing this person, who happens to also be my best friend, but I dont want to ruin anything. I dont want to let anything go. But then I dont want to start in a official relationship. I want to be able to have fun! Because thats the type of person I am.. I dont know what to do, what should I do?
BikerBeagle Posted December 19, 2008 Posted December 19, 2008 I'm guessing the guy you are currently seeing isn't interested or agreeable with an ongoing non-exclusive, casual dating relationship ...or an FWB situation? If not, you are going to have to let something go ...either him, or you're desire to be single and carefree. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
JoeNat Posted December 19, 2008 Posted December 19, 2008 Oh my!! You have confused me lol. Well, I think you should have a talk with this person you are seeing. I mean if he feels the same way then great but if not then dont hurt anybody. It seems as though you want a friend with benifits almost. When I'm in a relationship I dont go out unless that person is with me. I dont think it is fair because even though you might not go home with somebody I think flirting is very unfair. When a guy grabs your back at the bar to get close and talk with you he is really setting it up so he can graze down your ass... That pisses me off!!
Recommended Posts