smiiiley Posted December 19, 2008 Posted December 19, 2008 Stupid. I have already tried telling him and showing him i love him. he doesnt feel the same way anymore. However right now, I'm just missing HIM...not my boyfriend but my best friend...would i be able to handle he has someone else? it would hurt but if he was the same person he used to be with me, i would be okay and wish him the best....With that said I WANT TO CONTACT HIM SOOO BAD but im too afraid it might just hurt me in the long run.... In the movies this would go something like this: Me: I miss you. You were my best friend and it's hard going through everyday and being so distant with you. It hurts not to have u in my life. I love you. Him: I miss you too. I'm sorry for all the pain I caused you. I realized while you were gone that I love you. :laugh: I crack myself up...i have a better chance of learning how to fly then for that to actually happen...instead im afraid it would be mor elike this. Me: *riiiing* Him: VoiceMail (XXX is unavaibale. Please leave your message after the tone.) Me: *LONGG SIGH* Stupid! Stupid! STUPID!!! why did u call????? :laugh: its so pathetic! I'm too afraid to take that chance but it is driving me crazyyyy...everyday fighting this urge... if i wasnt so emotionally invested in him, i would take that chance cause at the end of the day i would be like "f*ck it i tried" but i would feel too hurt if it goes sour...
EmperorR Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 We all have had or have this urge, but I'm telling you calling etc. is the worst thing you can do. I guarantee you he's not sitting around thinking of calling you etc., it will just make you feel worse. If you want to just be a friend and 100% sure you won't be hurt etc., then go right ahead, dumper's love that, that your ok and accept the "friend" position.
Author smiiiley Posted December 20, 2008 Author Posted December 20, 2008 i still haven't called he texted me a week ago saying how is everything but that was it... I don't want a harsh respond but damn it fighting this urge every day sucks....
openbook08 Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 but everyday youre fighting it is one day more one day at a time i get those urges too... horrible but dont do it how can he miss you if youre always there?? youre playin a blinder so keep up NC and keep posting
FindingMyselfAgain Posted December 21, 2008 Posted December 21, 2008 My experience is, it hurts when the breakup happens. Then when you get perspective (ie, when the love-blinders come off) you discover the love of your life is a MESS and you can do WAY better -- in fact, 'better' becomes defined as, even, being totally alone rather than with that psycho. If she came back, I wouldn't even take the call -- and I don't have a woman in my life right now!
feeling so alone Posted December 22, 2008 Posted December 22, 2008 hey i know how your feelin my boyfriend of 2 and a half years left me on friday night, i'm already a single mum of 2 (from a previous relationship) i'm only 29!!he said he needs time to think??? what's to think about he says he loves us but yet he needs time!!! i dont get it i txt him today coz i hadn't heard from him i got a reply but that's it nothing since>>>> dont know what to tell my kids are we over or not???? i dont know coz he never said we was... keep in touch let me know what happens x
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