BrokenSmile Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 I went out with a guy, 4 years ago, we were out for about 8 months, but had liked each other a year or so before that. We split up when he went to a College, 3 hours from me. I haven't seen him since we were still together, but I’ve spoken to him 2 or 3 times on IM. Anyway, as we were in near his College, I decided to ring him, and he asked what I was up to during the day, said about going for a drink later that day. Beforehand I was really nervous as I hadn't seen him for so long... but when we met up it was so good, just like old times.. He hadn’t changed at all - even a hug goodbye! On the way home my friend, Joanna went "You two really suit each other, you go really well. I think he’s still fond of you". When I got home I kept thinking about earlier on in the day and how good it was to see him again and I was upset – I cried. I really thought I was over him, and I thought if I didn't meet up with him I would have been sad, but now I have seen him it's made me even worse. It's come as a shock to me how much I still like him, and how much I really do miss him, and I know I shouldn't. I know he's had other girlfriends, and I assume he’s single at the moment. I’m guessing that he is probably over me and wouldn't consider getting back together (although he has said he'd still do ‘things’ with me) but my hearts saying no, because I still like him.I really don’t know what to do, I still like him.. and there’s a part of me that’s wondering if he still does. Does it sound like he still likes me to you? Or was he just being friendly? Do you always have a soft spot for people you once went out with? Is it still possible to go out with them again in the future? How did my friend know he was still fond of me? Link to post Share on other sites
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