casey001 Posted December 19, 2008 Posted December 19, 2008 Hi there This may seem like a weird post but I just thought id get it out there. Firstly I wasn't bought up religious or spiritual or anything along those lines but I am opened minded about it all. Anyway I was overthinking things last night as per usual and just thought my relationship situation was a bit wierd! My first love dumped me Nov 10th 2007 and I found out he had a new gf dec 15th 07 which rocked my world!! Then I briefly went out with another guy a bit later who dumped me exactally 6 months to date after my first ex then I found out he had another gf exactally 6 months to date after finding out my first ex had a new gf!! Finally I dated someone else who I was very happy with but we broke up on Nov 10th 2008 and I found out he had a new gf on dec 15th 2008!!! Exact same dates as my first love!! I NEVER probed for any of this information, it just came to me! I just feel like the entire situation that I went through with my first love has been repeated!!! Firstly all the dumping and finding out about their new gfs happened on the exact same dates. In 07 I had no friends and spent the entire summer alone. In 08 I had friends but EVERY single one of them has moved away for summer so again im facing it alone. I had huge family issuse this time in 07 and again in 08 And I was kicked off my countires sports team this time in 07 and the EXACT same thing has happened again in 08!!! It just feels like the whole situation is repeating its self again!!!!! I worked so dam hard to recover the first time and built another life for myself so why is it happening again!?!?! Another interesting thing to ponder, there is this guy whom im good friends with (nothing more, I dont feel that way about him). We keep in touch but not very often. The interesting thing is this guy has chosen to ring me for a chat everytime I get dumped. He lives in another country, and all three times before I even told anyone else about the breakups the phone would ring and it would be him wanting a chat. He had no idea about the breakups either, and he has only run 3x this year, all minutes after I had been dumped!! Its just all seems strange! I know I sound like a crazy fool right now, but trust me im far from that! I was just overthinking last night and thought id put this out there to see how others interpret it! Just interested, please dont think im a nut case!!
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 19, 2008 Posted December 19, 2008 Whoa, you're actual proof that History repeats itself! Can I have an autograph?
Ronni_W Posted December 19, 2008 Posted December 19, 2008 casey001, I don't think you're a nutcase...and I doubt you were "over thinking". You mentioned about NOT being spiritual, so I gotta guess that you think your experiences may be somewhat related to some kind of 'spiritual' principles or phenomena or whatever people wanna call that, yes? Synchronicity and Laws of Attraction, Karma, Manifesting and whatever else such "Laws" exist? To me, the REALLY cool and fun stuff will start to happen when you start exploring the deeper stuff about the patterns in your life. How are you "co-producing" the movie that is your life? How are you co-producing the SAME movie? What is that about, for you? To me, that's where we can gain insight into the really juicy bits -- good luck and have fun with it, is what I'd suggest.
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