hurt&sad Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 Hi guys! Well...two days ago my boyfriend (whom I was living with for 2 years) let me look through his phone and I found a hidden messenger in which he had girls whom he talked to. I dont know if they were friends or whatnot but i left because I felt it was disrespectful. Its not the first time this had happened. But this time I really took it to the heart. Now Im heartbroken and feeling soooo bad. My heart even hurts. I can't get him off my mind and much worst I keep picturing him with someone else. Im going crazy and all I wanna do is sleep. Please give me advice. He's not my boyfriend anymore and He tells me he wants to get his life together. But I feel like he doesnt love me at all. I moved back in with my parents. Please tell me how to cope with this. Its my first time.
carhill Posted December 19, 2008 Posted December 19, 2008 By "talk" you mean what? Texts? Phone numbers? Names? I think we need to know a bit more of a context. He tells me he wants to get his life together. What does this have to do with the phone that he let you look at? I'm just About the only thing I can think of (and am likely wrong) is he created a situation to get you to break up with him because he was too cowardly to break up with you for whatever reason.
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