smoochie Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 Hey all, Is it a big deal to a guy if he is the only one a woman has had sex with even though they broke up? Meaning, if a relationship ends and both have gone their separate ways, if the woman has never slept with anyone within that time frame, how does that make the guy feel? And by time frame I mean four or five months when he knows she was seeing someone else. Would that make him respect her more or make him feel like HE is something special. I would think it wouldn't really matter but want some insight. Thanks.
BikerBeagle Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 Presuming he believes her ...then, yes, I suppose it would be worth a few brownie points ...
runner Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 it wouldn't matter to me. actually i would kind of feel sorry for her if she's been involved with someone for that long and they aren't having sex; doesn't sound like an ideal relationship. on the other hand, i would respect her for not sleeping with just anyone just because.
carhill Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 TBH, using my M as an example, if we D'd, it wouldn't matter to me one whit who my wife (now ex, in this example) was with and her sexual activities would matter even less. Simply put, it's no longer any of my beeswax I would, if anything, hope she continued to live her life in a way which was healthy for her..... I would think it wouldn't really matter but want some insight. My insight would be, if you're a party in this and are posting the question, it matters, to you
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