Bells Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 I go out with friends every so often, I have a female acquaintence that I know that asked met to join her at another Christmas party after we went out to eat...spur of the moment kind of thing. Then she goes, "Okay, I'm going to change my blouse in the car....no peeking.....*giggle giggle*tee hee tee hee*!!" I say, "Um...okay" Then she says it again when we're walking out to the parking lot....the driver is with us as well....friend of hers too. She has these gigantic breasts as it is, guess she likes to show them off with V-neck blouses (they are dressblouses, but just low cut) And she wants to change in the car, in front of us....while we're driving to the next party? Now, I was sitting in the back seat, so her changing....had I peeked wouldn't she get mad at me...or was her saying "Noo Peeeeeeeking...tee hee!" Was like saying, "No peeking, but...if you did, I wouldn't mind...and we'd get a good laugh out of it!" Why did she feel the need to change her blouse in front of us....I didn't peek....I'm a gentleman....so I didn't see anything...might have gotten a "side view" perhaps, but that's about it. Then when we got to our destination, she announces, "I just changed my top in front of TWO men! Giggle!" Now...actually, what was her purpose doing this? Was she wanting us to look anyways? Testing me, to see if I would peek? How many women hear change in front of their friends....I was wondering why was it necessary for her to change from one blouse to the next? Sometimes, I wonder, if this would set her up for something....well..not so safe if done in front of the wrong male crowd. Know what I mean?
MiniMina Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 wow.. sounds to me like she is really hungry for attention. Especially since not only did she decide to change in front of you, but she had to announce it to the world as soon as you got there. I might had done something like this while I was in HS or college and wanted as much male attention as possible, but I would never do this now.
BikerBeagle Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 Definitely an attention-hound. Next time (if there is a next time), tell her she can change whatever she wants, but you're watching. oO
Author Bells Posted December 18, 2008 Author Posted December 18, 2008 Definitely an attention-hound. Next time (if there is a next time), tell her she can change whatever she wants, but you're watching. oO Yeah, stupid me, decided to be a gentleman about it...lol....next time, I'm going to playfully peek over her shoulder as soon as she shows off the "ladies" She's always making jokes bout them too, she got a pic with me hugging me, and she has this low-cut blouse on....and she looked at the photo again, and said, "You seem to make my boobs stick out, lol" I guess when I was "squished" up against her....it pressed them outward, you cannot get near her without making any kind of physical contact with them lol!!
jerbear Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 "next time" use the camera phone. You're not officially peeking.
Author Bells Posted December 18, 2008 Author Posted December 18, 2008 Well, sometimes I feel like teaching a woman like this a lesson by doing "peeking" or just deliberately staring at her regardless of what she told me....or perhaps get out the camera or whatever. Teach her not to be a tease basically by calling her on it by sitting gawking at her just for spite. Don't want me to peek? Who cares what you want...I'm gonna peek, don't like it go home and change or find a restroom to change in.
quankanne Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 good golly, how old is this chick? 14? I learned to change clothes on the band bus in high school 30 years ago and can still do that in the car if need be, but I try not to call attention to myself by making suggestive comments or letting certain body parts "accidentally" show. your friend is definitely playing for attention when she says and does stuff like that, and frankly, that kind of behavior just makes the person seeking said attention just look stupid, IMO
Author Bells Posted December 18, 2008 Author Posted December 18, 2008 good golly, how old is this chick? 14? I learned to change clothes on the band bus in high school 30 years ago and can still do that in the car if need be, but I try not to call attention to myself by making suggestive comments or letting certain body parts "accidentally" show. your friend is definitely playing for attention when she says and does stuff like that, and frankly, that kind of behavior just makes the person seeking said attention just look stupid, IMO Late 30's....she's rather recently divorced...so maybe she's "having her fun" at this moment in her life. lol.
quankanne Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 or trying to convince herself that she still "has it."
Author Bells Posted December 18, 2008 Author Posted December 18, 2008 or trying to convince herself that she still "has it." She kind of reminds me of Jane Mansfield (from the old days).
EYECANDY000 Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 People do. Unexpecting thing all the time, whhich makes me wonder, what was they thinking? She probaly was just doing it out of fun. Should she be more careful when she's undressing in front of men? Yes!!! Would I do it? No!!! Either she is comfortable with you two boys or she just likes the attention!
Trialbyfire Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 There are only two words to say to this woman girl "grow up".
carhill Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 There are only two words to say to this woman girl "grow up". TBF, I agree; that said, a woman in her 'late 30's' should be relatively grown up and aware of her adult responsibilities and attendant decorum. I've only experienced one woman doing something similar, and that was my best friend's wife during the manic phase of her bi-polar condition when she was having med difficulties. You have to understand....he's in the shower and she's showing me her "girls"...oy..... She's doing much better now (this was years ago) but, if he see her start to wind up (I can feel it), I know she will be more than "friendly" with me, so I maintain a polite distance, give off those signals, and make no issue of subsequent behavior. Obviously, the OP's situation is different, but one has a bit more responsibility to their best friend, no? As with the OP's experience, this person was/is "well endowed" and I have experienced that conflict only a man can truly understand
Phateless Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 Sounds to me like she wants to sleep with you.
CommitmentPhobe Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 I would have been straight in there with some kind of line. Look, let her have her harmless fun. Who cares?
Phateless Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 I was with a group of friends once and there was this girl who was all about the attention, showing off her huge boobs every chance she got. She made some comment about how the bouncer loved that her ID was in there and I couldn't resist. HER: i think he was in awe when he saw me put my id back lol ME: what, the cheater bra? yeah those are great. HER: (attitude) what?! i don't use those things, i'm all real!! ME: (teasing) mm-hmm, I've heard that before! HER: what do you want me to do prove it? ME: haha no that's not necessary. let's get a drink. she grabs my hand and put its on her boob and squeezes to make me squeeze her boob. Freaking hilarious...
movingonandon Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 Whatever, sexually repressed, dumb college ho
Phateless Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 Whatever, sexually repressed, dumb college ho It was her birthday, she was drunk, she wanted to get laid. I see nothing wrong with that. If I had been single that night I would have given her multiple birthday wishes.
Author Bells Posted December 18, 2008 Author Posted December 18, 2008 It was her birthday, she was drunk, she wanted to get laid. I see nothing wrong with that. If I had been single that night I would have given her multiple birthday wishes. A woman that has a boyfriend that makes another man feel her boob, now that's a faithful woman.
Trialbyfire Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 TBF, I agree; that said, a woman in her 'late 30's' should be relatively grown up and aware of her adult responsibilities and attendant decorum. Just the thought of woman in her thirties, acting like a tweeny, makes me shudder. Embarrassing, to say the least.
Kamille Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 Look, let her have her harmless fun. Who cares? +1 She parties. She has boobs. She wanted to change. She thought it was funny. Need we really analyze, judge and even feel the desire to reprimand this woman? Are we that sexually repressed? if it's not something you would do, then don't do it. If it's not something you would respect in a partner, then don't date her. Other then that, why should it bother anyone?
Phateless Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 A woman that has a boyfriend that makes another man feel her boob, now that's a faithful woman. Huh? I'm a guy, I have a gf.
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