r0xigirll991 Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 I'll make this short because that's what seems to get the most responses. So anyway my very serious boyfriend of 8 months and I just broke up about 2 weeks ago. We had no contact for 2 days over the weekend and 5 days into the breakup he told me he was miserable and was just confused. So I was sweet and told him I still cared about him too. Then we both agreed that we would remain friends and try to work it out. Then he blew me off twice and I told him to **** off twice for various reasons, he was trying to piss me off. The day after he told me, it's really done, that I have shown him that we can't get along and many other hurtful things. So basically my question now is, if he came back once, will he come back again? I strongly believe that he doesn't know what he wants even though he tells me differently now. Do you think 18 days of NC will remind him of all the good times in our relationship and just everything...I just want him back sooo sooo much! this is what he said initially after the breakup... it's been 2 weeks Ex 12/10/08 8:04 PM i was going to say that i'd like to try again Ex 12/10/08 8:08 PM its all my fault 12/10/08 8:08 PM its my fault we broke up Sam 12/10/08 8:19 PM even if i say that i'm willing to get back togeather 12/10/08 8:19 PM that doesn't mean anything Ex 12/10/08 8:19 PM you won't take me back immediatley Ex 12/10/08 8:21 PM i know 12/10/08 8:21 PM i'm sorry 12/10/08 8:21 PM i don't deserve you 12/10/08 8:21 PM your right Me 12/10/08 8:24 PM i know, but it seems like you where about to tell me you wanted me again Ex 12/10/08 8:24 PM i am 12/10/08 8:24 PM cause thats the truth 12/10/08 8:25 PM i do want you back Ex 12/10/08 8:32 PM maybe not to you 12/10/08 8:32 PM but when you kissed me in 4th period today 12/10/08 8:32 PM it was a big deal to me Ex 12/10/08 8:34 PM before we do this again 12/10/08 8:34 PM i need to be 100% sure about it Ex 12/10/08 8:36 PM i've been horrible to you Ex 12/10/08 8:39 PM i just don't know what to do 12/10/08 8:39 PM everyone keeps saying that i need more space and time Ex 12/10/08 9:45 PM now you know that i do feel terrible i told you that i want you back Ex 12/11/08 9:08 PM i made a mistake 12/11/08 9:09 PM i can't undo it Ex 12/11/08 9:09 PM i would if i could Ex 12/11/08 9:12 PM i made one of the biggest mistakes of my life 12/11/08 9:12 PM and it left me miserable and alone Ex 12/11/08 9:13 PM i've had one of the worst weeks of my life He said kissing was a mistake recently... I just have a hard time believing him when he tells me he feels nothing for me... and it was a mistake to kiss me..
iwanttolive Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 Why did u guys break-up? Did u two have more good times than bad?
Author r0xigirll991 Posted December 18, 2008 Author Posted December 18, 2008 It was just the arguing and he was sick of it and didn't know what to do... So he decided to end things...
Author r0xigirll991 Posted December 18, 2008 Author Posted December 18, 2008 There were more good times than bad overall, it's just lately things have been pretty bad because of the arguing, my friend getting involved, and we don't know how to fix our fighting situation so he assumed breaking up was the best solution... Additionally he is mad at me for going to his house and telling him to F off... but you can't stay mad forever. and he wants to be friends in the future.
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