iwanttolive Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 What happened thus far: Me: Had the most wonderful time with this guy, great chemistry, addicted talking to each other, was his first gf in his 31 years of existence. Him: Loved another gal for 2 yrs but unreciprocated. Said he was confused about us, not sure if he loved me with all his heart n asked if we could be frens first n bond. Asked if I could continue hanging out with his frens. Me: Told myself I would not accept anything less than his full love and appreciation. Stormed out halfway through dinner with him, pulled away from his grip. Did not contact him for the next two days. He texted me 2 days later, asking where I was. Told him I was chilling at a club. He called me at 2 am. After talking for a while, I told him I wanted to go to bed. I never initiated any contact for the next one week. He said 'hi' every morning on msn. He asked me out for dinner last Friday. I dressed to kill. We joined his frens to chill out. But we did not behave intimately. 2 days ago: Him: My frens got me a real neat sweater as Christmas gift. Me: Wow, they really love u, man!! Him: Naahhh.. I got them t-shirts too. (silent) Him: You're the one I love. Me: Thanks then.. Him: ................................ Me: Well, wear it when we go for holiday in January. *we booked a ticket last month n could not cancel it, so I had no choice but to go* Him: Yeah, we'll take nice pictures together! Me: Ok. Yesterday: He did not contact me at all. I did not realise I was sooooo affected. My mind was so screwed up! Today: He said hi again. He told me there were problem with his company server. He was stressed trying to fix the problem the entire day. (I did not ask him anything about yesterday) My question: How do I proceed from here? He's a great guy, I do not want to do anything rash and regret it in the future. At the same time, is it possible to detach myself so I would not have this roller-coaster of emotions? How should I behave when vacationing with him in January? I already planned to bring a story book to read on the plane so I would not be dependent on him when I feel bored. But I don't know what to do for the rest of the trip!
Recommended Posts