roxyness Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 so, i did the no-contact thing for about a week, but since i go to the same school with my ex-boyfriend and we do bump into each other at times, i decided to tell him that we should at least be respectful when we see each other, because it's just weird looking him straight in the eyes and not at least saying "hey" or something. it's been working out pretty well. i don't initiate conversation, though. he did that today, actually. i tried not to say much, if anything at all, and he didn't get personal. it's not messing with my emotions, though. however, i told myself i wouldn't look on his myspace or the girl he likes myspace.. i gave in and did after about a week. he's got all this crap on it now like "we don't give a s###, i don't give a f###" and on his status it's like "dem girls all over me now" and i guess he's this mack daddy, going to all these parties now. and then on the girl's page, she's all "oh, he's my thrill" and "i love romantic massages and gifts". ugh, only 3 weeks and already this.. such a rebound, but anyway, like i've mentioned before, he still "loves" me, he's just not "in love" with me (which i don't believe makes sense AT ALL) and tells me he loves me everytime we talked before the NC. he also said i was still an option at the time, and if you haven't read my other posts, he wrote in his journal while he was stoned about 2 weeks ago that he wanted to marry me instead of doing what he's doing now and he was going to get back with me, but he claims it was just him "being high." so, my question, i guess, is have you gone through this before and successfully gotten your gf/bf back? i mean, with them changing their lifestyle, going for other people, then coming back to you? or did you just lose them forever? i'm trying to let go, i really am, but something keeps telling me to still keep that hope and work on myself and before i know it, he'll be back.. someone told me they've been through this about 7 times, so i just want to hear more experiences and whatnot. god bless
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