Evaevaeva Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 My boyf and I were doing no contact which I broke. We have been on living apart for months now and this is the first time we did no contact... his ex has been in the picture and he slept with her..got her pregnant and took her for an abortion...we spoke about it and he said it was all one big mistake but we both agreed to have NC to be sure how ew felt. I broke it yesterday and when I rang his phone it went to an overseas number... I rang his work they said he was on holiday...so he obviously went away. I rang her number and got an overseas number too,. so boviously they are away together...I text him asking what was happening and he has responded --- "Just so u nknow, I went away for a week to get away from the flat so I could think clearly. One thing I realised is how much I love you and miss you. I cant wait to see you and I cant stand the feeling that you are worried. I will call you wen I get back and we can start working on making a fresh start for 2009. Nothing is going on that you should be worried about. I want to come back and tell you and look in your eyes but I feel like u need to hear it now. Please let me relax for what is left of my getaway and I promise to explain all when I get back" How do I react? Im dumb struck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
msjules Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 Wow, that's a tough one. I think I would tell him that you also called the other woman and found out she is overseas as well. I'd ask him if they were together. Just be upfront about what you did and what you know and see how he responds, that's my advice. Good luck to you.
BikerBeagle Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 This really is a tough one. Him throwing that "fresh start" out there was a brilliant ploy while he is spending the week on vacation with his ex. (sarcasm) Seriously, even if he comes through with the 'fresh start', there's no reason to believe that the ex won't play another part in your future and you are setting yourself up for a lot of heartache. Trust me, I know ...my exGF broke up with me TWICE to go back to her ex. You need to cut this guy loose.
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