berncali Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 Alright Ill make this short as I can. I went out to eat and our waitress was absolutely gorgeous so I intiated conversation with her. Finally got her to want to come back to my place once she got off and left her number when she gave me the check. Well she came by and we hit it off. I walked her to her car and she gave me a kiss which shocked me so I went in for a second kiss and she was all for it and told me to call her the next day. So I did but she was heading into work so I told her to txt me or something if she wanted to talk later and she was like ok sweetie and next two days nothing. So I invited her to come over monday night and she told me she would call right when she got off and nothing again. So i called her and told her i was into her and that obviously she wasn't and that it upset me that she just couldn't just tell me she wasn't. She told me it was nothing like that and that she was just tired when she got off. While on the phone I was very content. So I asked if she was into me and She told me she started liking me right off the bat and promised to call me right when she got off work the next day. Well again nothing. So left confused why would this girl kiss me tell me to call her and say she is into me and likes me but then pull this. Im not gonna call or txt her anymore bc if she really wants to talk and is really interested she knows my number. Just confused and some insight would be greatly appreciated. Plus shes been single for 15 months if that will help. Im 21 and she's 20.
PrincessPeach Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 The ball is in her court. If you call again... try to set up seeing her or going out and doing something with her. If that doesn't work I'd try deleting her number to just forget about it if I were you. If she does call you before long, that's great; if not, at least you aren't stressing over it or getting more frustrated/confused than you deserve to be.
BCCA Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 Back off, let her call you if/when she wants to. Also, if someone flakes, dont call them again. It's not that you have to be pissed about it, but I can promise you if the roles were reversed she sure wouldnt be calling you over and over if you were blowing her off. It also shows a low level of confidence, like you would keep trying with someone who treats you like that because youre affraid of striking out elsewhere. I have to ask...she came over to your house after work...did you sleep with her? Why did you ask her to come over? What did you do when she got there? She could have taken 'come over tonight' as you wanting to have sex, but when you went into 'lets date' mode, she realized thats not what she wanted from you.
edinsvet Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 She likes you for sure, but these types of things happen. Girls at that age sometimes go hot and cold really fast. I would say... Pursue gently, and don't get upset when she flakes on you.
Author berncali Posted December 17, 2008 Author Posted December 17, 2008 I asked her to come over because I thought she was gorgeous and wanted to get to know her better. No we didn't sleep together and we just talked, listen to some music and she was smiling and laughing the majority of the time she was there and told me she had fun with me right before she kissed me.
Author berncali Posted December 18, 2008 Author Posted December 18, 2008 Well I gotta txt message late last night from her but didn't realize until a few hours later bc I was out ragin. She told me she was lookin at pics of me on my facebook and thought I was gorgeous and that she wanted me to call her tomorrow bc she missed me. So Im guessin things are lookin up unless she decides to flake out again which yeah will most likely happen.
EYECANDY000 Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 When she kissed you might have been like a spur of the moment. She may have felt like she had a good night with you so she ended it with a kiss. You need to back off this girl.. you just met her and already you are asking if she's into you? Give it some time.. let her call you.. and if she doesn't then she's not interested.
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