alwayssme Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 I'm bout to just give up on love and crushes for now because lately it's just not working for me. There is a guy I'm attracted to and want to get to know..he told me he liked me and was attracted to me before i even said anything. I told him I want to be friends then take it from there and he has not shown any interest after that. My ex whom I'm still in love with (and was so much into me for two years) stopped caring and broke up with me! Guys I don't like and have absolutely NO INTEREST in wont stop calling me, texting me, telling me they like me. I get texts hoping it would be the GUYS I WANT and NO its the other guys that like me but i dont like and HAVE TOLD THEM SO!!! i feel like throwing my phone against the wall when it's these other guys!! I hate love right now!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the one i want doesnt want me anymore, and the ones i dont like wont stop chasing after me! *sigh* SKFHSKFSKFHKSDFHK:mad:
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 Wow, someone must be attractive. Post a picture! LOL!
Author alwayssme Posted December 17, 2008 Author Posted December 17, 2008 haha thanks i guess..i think so..lol but that's not what i was trying to point across...just the fact that im "love frustrated" at this moment lol...just wondering why does it happen like that though? and the last thing i would want is people to know the crazy thoughts i post on loveshack i post way too much on here hahaha ...imma stop complaining about love...it has become a habit lately and tom you're a cutie! I read your other post and i hope everything works out with you and your ex!
IcemanJB Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 I've found that if you're actively looking for a relationship or dating or whatnot, it seems like it's impossible to get. It's when you're just living your life and being yourself that you'll meet and fall for someone. Example: the last girl I dated, I had known for awhile previously. It was summer and I had just gotten back from a week long relaxing fishing trip with my buddies and didn't really have a care in the world. THAT NIGHT she came over to hang out and the rest is history....you just never know.
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 Thank you alwaysme. Sorry you are going through a tough time. I wish you could have what you want.. And iceman, I don't know if I agree. lol. I pinpoint a girl and talk to her when I want to and it usually leads to a possible relationship. But its possible the girls I talk to are from a different place, and a different age. Because I don't know any of your details heh. But you can get a girl whenever you want to. The trick is getting the right one.
BikerBeagle Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 There is a guy I'm attracted to and want to get to know..he told me he liked me and was attracted to me before i even said anything. I told him I want to be friends then take it from there and he has not shown any interest after that.If you were attracted and interested in this guy, why did you just offer 'friendship'? ...because you aren't READY for a new relationship. It's that simple.
Author alwayssme Posted December 18, 2008 Author Posted December 18, 2008 If you were attracted and interested in this guy, why did you just offer 'friendship'? ...because you aren't READY for a new relationship. It's that simple. Exactly I'm not ready for a relationship...and plus I don't really know him that well..usually i get to know people, become friends with them, then decide to take it to the next level...but it's weird he was the one who said he liked me and everything..but he's not doing anything about it... Blahh...it's whatever I guess...
iwanttolive Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 Take this time to relax, be at peace with urself again, enjoy their attention & compliment n have fun
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