Artu Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 My story in brief : I am married with one , I love the other .I had a thread already of my story,so wont repeat here .Its not actual now . I came today to message her,my OW,who is my pure love.I know ,she loves to visit here. She was in NC with me for some definite time . Still ... To her : -You have doubts whether I care for you or not ? -I care. I care a lot . -How you can see that ? -Look at myspace. Have I put my couple snaps ? I have put only mine . Friends who asked me , they were answered : "You know me married,so what`s the difference I put the snaps or not? " What else I could tell ? I could not tell :"I care for her,whom I love,thats why I do not put snaps with Wife. Somehow I even persuaded my Wife also not to put our 'couple snaps' . Till now she is persuaded. For me personally it doesn`t matter . But I care for her .I don`t want her to get sad feelings looking at 'snaps'. I know,she visits myspace once a week. --She is wondering why am sometimes so much time online. She thinks ... I dont know what ... --I will give her my login and password ,she might see herself. She knows me,I `m warmhearted,but not a whore. --She asked me once where I sleep . --I sleep in a separate bed . Unbelievable,but true 100%. --Why ? --I cant love one and sleep with the other. --Is it possible? --Yes. --Do I love fantasies? --O,yes. --What`s the topic? --Sex is .. --Am I unhappy ? --I hate this word .I want to be happy . And I will make my self . But the only person in my entire life who made me happy - its her ,and she knows this .. No one other . Ever . ----My wishes to Her ? ----I wish her All Happiness in life whatever she decides herself . __________________________________________ My funny mood does not mean I `m happy . Humor just helps me survive,dear ...
Benique Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 You are in a situation so much alike mine..
Tarantula Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 Artu, I remember your story about marrying while loving another woman . All I can tell you is God bless ! Everything happens in life . Never break your heart . Its useless . You will just remain with a broken heart . It wont do any good . So ,no use. Stay loving and compassionate as you seem to be . And best of luck to you !
jwi71 Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 So why don't you get divorced to be with the woman you love? THAT would be a pretty clear signal no?
Wicked Smile Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 So why don't you get divorced to be with the woman you love? THAT would be a pretty clear signal no? I don't pretend to know the whole story here but all I can say is I wonder if the damage being done to the wife is even a factor. Does she know? Seems like she would have all the signs. Why not come clean and get divorced? I wonder what you are telling your wife. To me I can stand people who line up a another ship before they try leaping off. It's your life but that does not mean you get to crush your wife's in the process of you jumping ships. I am just not going to be understanding of this in it's current form.
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