anagaliano Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 I meet this guy 3 months ago, we share the a students house and are in university together (both 27). We hang out a lot, and were both attracted to each other. In the past 2 months he shown a lot of signs he was interested in me (staring, always wanting to hang out every day, touching and teasing, smiling a lot, being jealous and trying to make me jealous to check my reaction). I never react to this cause recently break up with my boyfriend ( 2 months ago) and didn't want to hurt him, so was holding my feelings for a while. One week ago we had a party at home, and he made some obvious moves to get my attention, but i didn't want the others to notice so ignore. Day after he react has being hurt, and went to a friends house for dinner (girl). When we are not together we spend all our time texting each other until late at night, friendly conversation. But after that dinner he text something really strange, hinted the other girl is a good choice for him (we never discussed this kind of things). Also, some days later in a conversation he wrote, out of context, he was doing is best to keep away from me. Even so, we were together all next day. This weekend he meet the girl again for coffee, when i knew they were together sent a text msg saying i like him. We meet later that night and very friendly we said he was surprised and wants only to keep good friendship. But this last 2 days i was acting very cool, showing i'm over it, but he insisted in go together to university, after that we went shopping and coffee. At night we had dinner with friends and he was trying to get my attention and always making conversation with me apart from the group in our way home. Now he is out for 2 weeks holidays. What is going on? I know he is not having anything with this girl cause i know her too. I really need help to figure this out, can't talk to anyone about it. Was i wrong assuming that he liked me? Is he denying is feelings cause was hurt or just forgot me in 2 days? Is it normal that he still wants to hang out after knowing how i feel?
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