bobbeepin Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 My b/f gets soooo jealous when I text my guy friends. He's always going through my phone to read them when i'm not looking. The other night we got into a fight because we went to a party and he was hanging on another girl, who he swears up and down is "just a friend" with his guy friends backing him up. So I texted one of my guy friends saying my b/f was being a real dick, and later that night my b/f read my txts..again..and got pissed, said that the number one reason why couples break up is because of texting because it's basically hiding things from the other person. WTF?!?! I have never heard before that it isn't okay to txt other people when you're in a relationship. Opinions?
Lauriebell82 Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 He sounds controlling. Why do you let him go through your phone? He has no right to do that, it is your personal property. You need to set some boudaries with him and tell him that he no longer has access to your phone or text messages. If he gets pissed and doesn't like it then dump his butt, bc he sounds like a controlling and paranoid jerk. Oh and his reasoning about text messages that it is like hiding things from someone: you could say the same about email, aim, pretty much everything person you use as a form of communicating. It's most likely just to guilt you into putting up with his behavior.
EYECANDY000 Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 Why cant you text other people when you are in a relationship. As long as the texting is not misleading, and disrespectful towards the other person . I think if he really trusts you then he wouldnt be going through your phone every day. I see this scenerio leading to a lot of deceit on your end. It seems hes putting you in a hard spot , to where he doesnt want you to converse with any other guy, which will lead to you sneaking , just to talk to friends.. he needs to lighten up and trust you more
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