OCCDAVE Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 I woke up a minute ago to get something to drink and noticed my cell was flashing blue.I figure no biggie missed call or whatever but it was a new text.the text reads the following I hate you,you ruin everything even when u arnt in the picture anymore. I was the one dumped after 2 and half years yet she is throwing around the hate word.should I just ignore this and see it as an attempt on her to get me to break nc.
alone_confused Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 what a lovely text message, not! Well i just broke NC for a very good reason and now im depressed again, so i would personally say dont reply.
JooLee Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 she dumped you? ignore her. what kind of msg is that anyway, so disrespectful!
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 OCCDAVE while I know the background on what your girl has done, I do not know the background on YOUR personal mistakes. So I cannot accurately assess what should be done, really. Were you mean? Is it possible you made many mistakes and don't see it? Or was this girl just psychotic? If she was just psychotic, then ignore her. Or tell her you just found out you have herpes and she should get checked out. Owned.
Author OCCDAVE Posted December 17, 2008 Author Posted December 17, 2008 Well if mean is giving her and the kids what they wanted and always being there to help out guess im a grinch heh.I dunno if she was phyco but she did have I feel bi poler ways about here.heck some days she was like plz come over I love u so much hurry then I get there uhh u should have stayed home.I would be like huh u asked me to come fine ill go and she would be like no u can stay lol .anyway dsm im not perfect but she wasn't to in relationships fights are common but I didn't cheat and did cherish her.
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 Ok good. Now that I have the story of her and your flaws, as well as your strong suits, I feel it is more accurate for me to tell you that she is the insane one. (Yes, I'm sure you've already known this for a long time). Just ignore her. She is seeking attention.
Author OCCDAVE Posted December 17, 2008 Author Posted December 17, 2008 Looking for attention or this new bf is falling apart already.dunno my friend just told me her myspace says I feel stupid,really stupid completly stupid. I don't expect her to come running back or anything but that latest status is intertesting what do u make of it.
Zapbasket Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 My opinion is, if anyone has something truly valuable to say, they'll find venues other than text messages and myspace status messages to say it. Otherwise it's just drivel, and really childish, imo. Keep moving forward; don't acknowledge any texts; don't encourage mutual friends to report on her myspace.
Author OCCDAVE Posted December 18, 2008 Author Posted December 18, 2008 My opinion is, if anyone has something truly valuable to say, they'll find venues other than text messages and myspace status messages to say it. Otherwise it's just drivel, and really childish, imo. Keep moving forward; don't acknowledge any texts; don't encourage mutual friends to report on her myspace.I will tell them not to imo it makes me look sad and not over her by them telling me.I just don't get it you have someone new why must you text me and blame me for whats going on bad with you cant you just leave me at peace ?
Zapbasket Posted December 19, 2008 Posted December 19, 2008 I will tell them not to imo it makes me look sad and not over her by them telling me.I just don't get it you have someone new why must you text me and blame me for whats going on bad with you cant you just leave me at peace ? Dang straight. Why can't she? Take a good hard look at what this texting, etc. might say about her as a person. Do you really want to be with a person who acts as she does?
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