Funkymonkey Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 I've kept in touch with this girl at work. She quit, but since then we've spoke on the phone and texted each other on a regular basis. It is obvious that i'm very interested in this girl, I don't know whether she knows that. I've been meaning to tell her for the longest time, but could not bring myself to do it since she has a boyfriend. It's kind of weird, we click. On the phone we laugh, we share deep stories and she's really interested in who I am, and always asks me to tell her about myself, likewise myself to her. I get random SMS messages from her, asking how my day was, how was work etc. We've hung out once, had a blast, I knew she was all over me. I wouldn't be suprised if you told me were FZ, but I find it REALLY hard to believe that any girl who FZ's me would seem to cling to me like that. Getting a phone call everyday 4 days straight 2 hours each seems like either we've somehow become really good freinds or could it be something else? It's such a bitch to have to deal with this, and there's so many things that are bothering me about this. I like her a lot. Could she be splitting her relationship between me and her boyfreind, me being the guy who fills her emotional needs while her boyfreind can't, she goes home sleeps with her boyfreind and he gets the title of BF? Like i said earlier, I don't want to tell her how I feel, I am quite confident I could steal her straight from her boyfreind but i'm not going to do that, beacuse if she does leave her boyfreind for me, I'd be scared that she'd do the same to me for some other better guy that comes across. Go for it, or back off. **** I don't know. Desperate need of help
D-Jam Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 Maybe invite her out as a "hanging out" thing. See if the chemistry picks up. For all you know she could end up all cuddly on you and such. Be charming to her. The worst that could happen is that she sets you straight and says "we're just friends".
Author Funkymonkey Posted December 17, 2008 Author Posted December 17, 2008 Maybe invite her out as a "hanging out" thing. See if the chemistry picks up. For all you know she could end up all cuddly on you and such. Be charming to her. The worst that could happen is that she sets you straight and says "we're just friends". I'm planning to invite her out next week, without a doubt I could get her to get super cuddly with me, but I don't want to since she does have a BF. **** If I back off, I lose her. If I don't, I get her boyfreind gets pissed, and she might end up doing the same to me.
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