casey001 Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 Hey there I was wondering if you guys could help me Im feeling terrible I broke up with my ex over a month ago and im still shattered! If you dont mind I would like to say a bit about the relationship so I can get some advice how to get on with things. Im 20 and he is also 20 (both were 19 when we got together) Unfortunatly the relationship was LD. We were 4 hours drive away. We had been friends for years before the relationship! When we got together things were good but he was never one for making an effort! For example I visited his home town one weekend. I went down Sunday morning and he did not come and see me Sunday or Monday or Tuesday! By Tuesday I got upset over it which prompted him to invite me over on the Wednesday! It was small things like that, that happened continuously! But he was good otherwise. However It finally got to the point where we would ignore me for days on end and give me only one word replies. He would snap at me all the time when I tried to talk. For example one day I had an interview at a major uni, I txtd him at 7am before my interview saying how nervous I was etc. He still hadn't replied by 11pm and I was upset he didn't ask. I simply sent a 'are you going to talk to me today?' txt to which he went psyco and switched his phone off at. I felt like crap all the time. He made me cry almost every day and I felt SO upset all the time. My final straw came when he has ignored me for 2 days, during these two days I sprained my knee before a massive competition that I had been training for for ages! I told him and all he said was "hehe" I replied with "is that is?" To which I got "sorry its just funny" I was HEARTBROKEN!!!!!!! I honestly felt like I had been a really good gf to him and all he had done was treat me like absolute crap. I tried to breakup with him that night but he got so upset that I couldn't do it I was a mess and so confused. He ignored me for the rest of that week then rung me and dumped me! His reason 'im just feeling lazy" Its been a month and a week but I still think of him everyday I miss him so dam much and I dont understand why I found out about A week ago that he is dating someone new and it ripped my heart out. Apparently he treats her like an absolute princess which tore my heart out more. Why would he treat me like absolute crap but someone else like a saint? It makes me feel so awful, like the problem is all me. Can you help me move on. I feel so heartbroken and I miss him so much!! I really miss the way he used to be before he started treating me like crap Please help me
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