DJ McCloud Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 This past weekend, I was out with some friends and met an amazing woman. Unfortunately, I learned she was only in town for the weekend for a business trip and lives ~3 hours away. We had a fairly long conversation ~45 minutes which went very well. Just when I was getting ready to give up on meeting a girl with all the qualities I desire, I happened to meet this woman. I would really love to see this woman again but don't want to seem like a desperate creep of sorts. Of course, the reality and logistics of the situation make me very disappointed. I can't fathom accomplishing this but am having trouble thinking about anything else. If any one can offer any advice, I'd really appreciate an opinion from another stranger.
Green Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 First off just the fact that your worrying about comming off as a creep tells me your confidence isn't where it should be. Truth be told women love creeps... think about any romantic or fun thing a guy did to get a girl and then you'll realize just how creepy it could have been percieved if it didn't work. I mean romeo climbing up juliets balcony in the middle of the night to talk to her... pretty creepy eh she could say to herself damn he might climb up any time he wants now... as far as her being from out of town... have u ever made the drive... r u sure its not more like 2 and a half hours on a good day... even if it is 3 hours that is not that bad and it will give you a great excuse to spend the night and get this relationship off to a quick start... your a fool if you don't givethis your best try. Stop being afraid of failur and rejection in your life GO FOR IT!
Author DJ McCloud Posted December 16, 2008 Author Posted December 16, 2008 Thanks for replying. Let me explain my reservations a little more. I did meet this woman at a bar, and I did have a bit of a buzz at the time as did she. That being said, if she lived within the metro area or state even, I'd have no reservations at all. Also, I have no idea what she thinks of me. Finally, I know she travels nearly every weekend and I have my own responsibilities during the week. I'll admit lacking confidence in the past and that this would never have happened without efforts to boost it. Unfortunately, the great decision making skills I make in other areas of my to be highly successful don't apply to a love life.
Green Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 I think they do apply to love. It really probably won't work out but just give it your best shot and who knows what might happen.
Author DJ McCloud Posted December 16, 2008 Author Posted December 16, 2008 Any suggestions on how to go about that?
Green Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 Any suggestions on how to go about that? well if you got her number or email or whatever then just let her know you normally wouldn't even bother with some one so far away but that you need to see her again and then state a time and place... ur probably going to have to visit her. if you don't have contact information but you know where she works or something just send flowers to her work
inloveforeverwithyou Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 All I can say is that you should try and visit her. Try for as long as your heart can take it. Just set some sort of schedule. For example, if you can't see her after 3 months then give up. Bend this schedule however you would like to, this is personal.
Author DJ McCloud Posted December 17, 2008 Author Posted December 17, 2008 I do have her phone number, so a call or text would be possible.
Perry Posted December 19, 2008 Posted December 19, 2008 Make out that you are going to go see such and such movie, or you want to go the art museum, or whatever, and invite her along. But do not specify a day. Let her know that you would like some company, and ask her if she would like to come along. Perry TheList.FM
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