littleShyGuy Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 Hey, first time on this site, i didn't where else to turn, so i thought why not give the internet a try? Sorry in advance if this does not belong in this sub-forum. The situation is, i met a girl at a party but never talked to her. I went shopping with a couple of my buddies at the mall a week later and bumped into her, chatted, and ended up with her number after asking her if she wanted to go out to eat. She said the dreaded "Maybe" and told me to call her and she'll let me know when she changes her mind. Anyway i call, and don't really have much of a conversation due to me being a nervous wreck, and i ended up asking her if she's made up her mind, which i think i shouldn't of have asked. She said she'll call me back when she's free to go out. Now my question is, should i just leave it at that? Should i call her and try to have small talk with her still? Or have i cornered myself and just wait to see if she calls back? Thanks everyone!
prettybaby Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 She sounds like a brat. Don't call, she's playing with you.
Meaplus3 Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 Since she said she would call..I'd give it some time and let her be the one to call you. Good luck. Mea:)
EYECANDY000 Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 Doesn't sound like she is really interested..
Julesx0822 Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 if she calls, she's interested. i wouldn't wait around for it or get your hopes up. start worrying about other things.
Author littleShyGuy Posted December 16, 2008 Author Posted December 16, 2008 That's what i thought.. Thanks everyone for confirming! Time to find me a new Cali chick.
Perry Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 She sounds like a brat. Don't call, she's playing with you. That's what I was thinking. Or she just couldn't say "no" to your face. People, I con't care how busy they are, know when they can go out to eat.
inloveforeverwithyou Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 Well congradulations for approaching your shyness, and coming to visit us at the forum. Yes you do have to call the woman, its a pain, but it has to happen. What you should do is just imagine how happy you will be once you are her boyfriend or best friend or whatever is going to happen. And you Will be fine.
edinsvet Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 I disagree with all of the people who say don't call. She is just mimicing you you are scared so she is scared too. You didn't ask her out the right way the first time I would say no to someone who asked in such a lame way:cool: Be a man Quit being so nervous. Send her one or two nice text messages with nothing specific and then call her back with a specific date And don't say some bull**** like have you made up your mind yet. Say something like. Hey I was just thinking about you. There is this really cool bla bla bla I want to check out and I would love for you to come with me Are you free Sunday afternoon? If she still says no at least you can say you tried whatever you think you did does not count
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