Author ATR Posted December 18, 2008 Author Posted December 18, 2008 Ha, this girl is not imediate about anything. She won't text back untill it's a good few hours after lol. This is my plan:lmao: Ignore her till she asks why i am ignoring her. Write a letter to her explaining EVERYTHING. Which will include that i only want to hear from her if she wants to get back together, otherwise you have to wait for me to heal.
LavendarGirl Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 Hey ATR, mood swings are a normal part of healing from a breakup, don't get mad at yourself if you find you are experiencing a whole range of emotions. But I'm glad to see you were having -part- of a good day yesterday, that's progress! Take it one day at a time, and before you know it you will realize that you aren't thinking about her anymore. Hang out with friends as a distraction, bury your nose in a book and study to get your mind off of things, take a nap, surf the web. Whatever it takes to get through these days. Best of luck to you, and you are going to do fine. --LG.
Author ATR Posted December 18, 2008 Author Posted December 18, 2008 But i have hope i that i can get her back:( This is the reason she broke up with me: "I never saw you, i wanted to, but my mum wouldn't let me visit you" I want to tell her that if i meet her mum maybe she will be reassured that everything is all well as her mum is very protective. I don't think it's over fully though, or am i having another mood swing. I really believe we could still make it work if i just meet her mother and we see eachother more often. AHH i'm feeling **** and confused again. Do i go to meet her and ask her if we can get back together. Do i go non contact and wait for her to contact me then write her a letter. I feel like contacting her so bad!!! but i know i will feel like **** afterwards I just want her to realise that it can work, or can it I hate this so bad! Next time she contacts me im going to tell her how much i miss her and explain how this relationship could work. I can't help to hold on. The reason she broke up with me was so minor i think it can be mended:( helpppp.
Author ATR Posted December 19, 2008 Author Posted December 19, 2008 Bump... I still can't get out of my head that i could have a 2nd chance with her Also do you think sending a letter to her is sad? or cheesy... I've been told different advice lol, some say its a great idea some say its sad...
Author ATR Posted December 19, 2008 Author Posted December 19, 2008 Ok... i can't seem to edit my post to stop bumping it... Well i text her earlier asking if i could call her that night, she said she had friends round so she couldn't. So i asked her if i could meet her next week and she said she would think about it... Any chance?
LavendarGirl Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 ATR, I'd say that you contact her, and suggest that you come and visit her. Make it a pleasant visit. Tell her that you'd like to have a second chance. If she says no or she's undecided, don't pressure her. But maybe you can plan when you're there together with her, your next visit to see her. Mum will need to warm up to the idea of you. Your GF is 16, I can understand Mum's hesitation about having her ride the train to see you, so you'll need to win Mum over gradually. And not the best suggestion to see Mum if the GF is not sure if she wants to continue a relationship. But don't wait for her to contact you, that might never happen. Get the guts and CALL her (texting won't do in this situation). Best of luck to you, --LG
Author ATR Posted December 20, 2008 Author Posted December 20, 2008 I was at my saturday job today and i was soooo miserable I can't stop thinking about her I asked her yesterday if we could meet up and she said she would think about it. "Think about it?" A couple of weeks ago she was telling me how much she was missing me, now it looks like she doesn't want to see me at all... I need to have her back, i can't stop thinking about all the little stupid things we used to say to eachother, things that used to brighten my day. I wonder if she misses that too, somehow i doubt it
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