4givrnt4gtr Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 Im nervous...nervous! Recently Ive started seeing this guy who asked me out 2 months ago but I wasnt sure whether I wanted to get into a relationship or not. I told him i wanted to be friends, hang out and see where we went. Well we've hanged out, everything was cool for a while. Since we were "just friends" I never worried or even thought about when he would call me or anything like that at all. But then he called me to ask if we could go to dinner. Again, i saw it as just friends. However we had an amazing time, just joking and chatting. I started liking him even though it definitely was not a date at all. A few days later we hanged out again. More chatting, more joking, I even brought up something I didnt like about him (makes cocky comments) and we totally made a joke about it which is really cool cuz it made me see he isnt cocky at all. Anyway that day we ended up making out. And it has been downhill since then, for me anyway. I am now constantly wondering when is he gonna call me/text me, or whether he is even all that interested. I was freaking out the day after we made out because he didnt text or call me all day. I tried to be rational, but no matter what I still feel this twinge of nervousness. Anyhow he actually called me at midnite, which I didnt hear. He left me a message saying that he just called to talk to me and to remind me about a party we were supposed to go to the next day. The next day we talked and it was cool, he asked me out for dinner before the party. He took me to this nice restaurant, and again we had an amazing time. At the party we were together the whole time. It was great. Then we came to my place, made out again and he stayed over. However the next morning he seemed to be kind of in a rush to leave. I also had to go so he walked me to my car. He gave me a kind of awkward hug, and I kinda tilted my face up so he would kiss me..he almost didnt until he realized I was expecting it...(awkward!!!) anyway, again its been 2 days of pure torture...I decided to text him this morning, something playful. He responded a few hours later saying he would call me tonight..... And im sitting on pins and needles... I so miss the days when I didnt notice whether he would call me or not!!! I hate this! How do I stop myself from being so...needy??? Is it normal that he doesnt call as much??? When do you know you are actually dating? how fast is the whole dating thing supposed to go??? IM SUCH A ROOOKIIEEE!!!!
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