Wilhemina Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 OK ... I've met this guy two months ago. We've seen each other three times. I got the impression he liked me because we've had some intimate moments the second time we saw each other,hugging and holding hands. He always looks me in the eyes and smiles a lot and is reluctant when we have to go home like he doesn't know what to do. But nothing came out of it. I was so frightened to show him that I liked him. Same thing happened on our third date. I couldn't even look him in the eye because of fear and my insecurity. Later after that he started to avoid me. Every time we talk he has something else to do and says stuff like I'll talk to you later. He will accept when I ask him out and say stuff like I'll call you when I'm free but then he doesn't. It's like he is running away from every possibility of talking to me or meeting me. I really don't know what to do. The only thing I do know is that I really really like him. I would appreciate every help I can get. Thank you!
edinsvet Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 Hmmm........ Situation doesn't sound good to me. 3 dates in 2 months does not sound like the pattern of healthy progress And I think you killed it on that third date. Was there any physical contact that date? or did you go backwards that one? My opinion is to move on because you shouldn't be doing the pursuing.
Author Wilhemina Posted December 16, 2008 Author Posted December 16, 2008 Maybe you're right. It's kind of hard to accept it but the sooner the better.. Thank you for your reply!
EYECANDY000 Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 Luv, It sounds like he is "playing the field" sounds like he is dating other girls as well. which isnt a big deal since you two arent together.. 2 or 3 times in a month? hmmmm any guy who says " ill call you when im free" is not that interested.. because if he was he would make time for you.. or he would definately let you know when hes free, so you dont get the impression that hes blowing you off. and plus, hes not even following up on his statement. Hes not even calling....
Author Wilhemina Posted December 16, 2008 Author Posted December 16, 2008 Yes, you have a point there... ty
Meet 4 Coffee Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 A rule of thumb is if you find yourself having to 'figure him out' then he is not that into you. I'm sorry. At least you can move on, not having had anymore physical intimacy than you did.
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