xero Posted December 15, 2008 Posted December 15, 2008 Looking for more opinions: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=172107&page=2 Looking less for advice on future actions since there are none. Just other people's take on her and her actions in relationships. Mainly the thing about me being the third person she's saying I love you to this year alone.
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 Sounds like she is emotionally insecure to me. Not someone who is ready for a mature loving relationship. She probably thrives on the beginning stages of relationships - the infatuation stage, and enjoys that attention. When the infatuation wears off, its time for a new relationship. Perhaps in her mind, that over the top infatuation is what she thinks love is and craves the intense attention that is paid to her during those times. On a deeper level, she may feel a sort of self hatred that keeps her from letting anyone get too close - the more they get to know the 'real' her as opposed to the 'fantasy' her, the more likely she is to dump them. Why? If she can't love herself, she probably is afraid that no one else will love her either - not if they really knew who she was.
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