Author Green Posted December 16, 2008 Author Posted December 16, 2008 Dude... I mean dude.... if you can have your fun, wrap that rascal and enjoy the ride. I hate wrapping the rascal though I have every time with her OP, you know we love ya but we just have to call em as we see em. I've had that brand of bravo sierra foisted on me so many times I could write a book about it. It's a wonder I don't hate women (God only knows why ) Oh, at least you're getting your noodle wet she gets things really wet If you can continue without getting too attached, then more power to you. Here is how I sum up this situation: She seems to have a history of using her charm, looks, sex, to keep her as the center of attention, of men. Also, she seems to think that it's OK to lie. Social norms don't really apply to her in that sense. She will continue to lie to you. So don't ever expect honesty from her, or to have anything long term uness you just want to be in a nutty relationship. But at your age, keep her around and you two can use each other as fxxx buddies or something. I don;t know what I expect from her, but the super web of lies is madening theres no reasoning with her
Author Green Posted December 17, 2008 Author Posted December 17, 2008 My friend said I should just keep messing around with her and find a new girl then break up
JamesM Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 My friend said I should just keep messing around with her and find a new girl then break up Great idea....but can your heart handle it? Who will get hurt...you or her? And didn't you say that you dated a girl...and thought of Miss Trouble the whole time? How do you think this idea will work for you?
Author Green Posted December 17, 2008 Author Posted December 17, 2008 Great idea....but can your heart handle it? Who will get hurt...you or her? And didn't you say that you dated a girl...and thought of Miss Trouble the whole time? How do you think this idea will work for you? Its working horible I told her i loved her tonight... oh well atleast I'm getting out of town for a few days and out of the country soon after that for a few weeks so that might clear my head Luke, beware of the Dark Side now I know why Jedi's don't date
D-Jam Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 MEH...I think KMT should stop worrying so much, not take it so seriously, and just enjoy it. Bang her, have fun, ignore the haters, and if you think she's not going to be a really faithful, loving, wonderful kind of GF, then keep your eyes open for other options. Treat things as "just seeing each other". Give the "bad girl" loyalty when she gives you loyalty. Frankly, I wouldn't worry about the plethora of guy friends. You know they're all hating because they are all only her friends hoping they'll get a shot with her. Kind of pathetic that men do that. I guarantee if you two became a very tight couple or even married, most of them would drop contact with her...and one or two will try to steal her. If she lies to you and is flaky with you, then you know you can't fully trust her or take her seriously. If you enjoy the sex and wild times...then leave things as "fun time" and not take it seriously. If you want the serious GF, then maybe have a calm, polite, serious talk with her...or end it and look for the kind of woman you want.
sumdude Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 MEH...I think KMT should stop worrying so much, not take it so seriously, and just enjoy it. Bang her, have fun, ignore the haters, and if you think she's not going to be a really faithful, loving, wonderful kind of GF, then keep your eyes open for other options. Treat things as "just seeing each other". Give the "bad girl" loyalty when she gives you loyalty. Well I don't know about any haters. I just saw a lot of red flags and wanted to warn the boy. Been there, done that and bought the t-shirt. Problem is when blood leaves the brain for extended periods of time.
Author Green Posted December 17, 2008 Author Posted December 17, 2008 MEH...I think KMT should stop worrying so much, not take it so seriously, and just enjoy it. Bang her, have fun, ignore the haters, and if you think she's not going to be a really faithful, loving, wonderful kind of GF, then keep your eyes open for other options. Treat things as "just seeing each other". Give the "bad girl" loyalty when she gives you loyalty. Frankly, I wouldn't worry about the plethora of guy friends. You know they're all hating because they are all only her friends hoping they'll get a shot with her. Kind of pathetic that men do that. I guarantee if you two became a very tight couple or even married, most of them would drop contact with her...and one or two will try to steal her. If she lies to you and is flaky with you, then you know you can't fully trust her or take her seriously. If you enjoy the sex and wild times...then leave things as "fun time" and not take it seriously. If you want the serious GF, then maybe have a calm, polite, serious talk with her...or end it and look for the kind of woman you want. thanks, yeah shes been anything but flaky with me in fact she tries to visit me every day. shes just always been weird about letting me come over to my place and I don't necesarily think she is cheating on me its just a little crazy. But enjoy my time with her for now is exactly what I plan on doing. I started saying I love her and stuff but there are no plans to get married or move intogather so what ever...
FleshNBones Posted December 18, 2008 Posted December 18, 2008 thanks, yeah shes been anything but flaky with me in fact she tries to visit me every day. shes just always been weird about letting me come over to my place and I don't necesarily think she is cheating on me its just a little crazy. But enjoy my time with her for now is exactly what I plan on doing. I started saying I love her and stuff but there are no plans to get married or move intogather so what ever...Play with fire and you will get burned. You don't want to get too close to a sleazy spinster. There are many ways for her to drain you.
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