never had a gf need some

[aturner]

hey, im 19, and ive never had an actual girlfriend, ive had plenty of friends that are girls, but even then, none of them that i would hang out with outside of school or without friends. so really ive never even hung out with a girl by myself, which i think is pretty wierd for 19.

i dont know what my problem us, like im not like some nerd or something, i think im pretty good looking. i think i might just have a wierd attitude about the whole thing. like the girls i like dont like me, and the girls that like me i dont like them back. im not super wierd but im not very normal, i guess im kind of a joker, i dont take too much very seriously, and i dont do normal highschool/college stuff, i dont like to drink, i dont go to parties very much, im just really not into the whole thing.

i like to go out and do different stuff.

 

im sorta shy, i just kinda like to keep to myself, but when im around friends or people i like, im not really shy at all. so i dont think that has much to do with it.

im not the type of person who can just go out and hook up with random girls just for the hell of it. thats just not me. and if i get a girlfriend, it needs to be someone who i really like, not just someone who is hot and has a bad attitude.

 

there is actually a girl right now that i know is interested in me, and i kind like her, but whenever i talk to her we just dont connect, like we have totally different attitudes and interests. she's the type of person who goes out and parties like 3 nights a week, and i ski 4 days a week in the winter, go on backcountry trips, camping, skating, and at night im usually going out with my friends and just kinda walking around town finding things to do, or like exploring places and stuff. and i think its really hard in general to find girls who are interested in that stuff.

 

and another thing, is i kinda have a reputation of being that kid who never had a girlfriend, and just does my own wierd thing. like even my friends have said it would be very wierd to see me with a girl. so that just makes it more akward.

 

so if anyone has some advice that would be awesome! i think i kinda made it hard on myself in the past by not really trying, like just 3 years ago or so it would have been perfectly fine to have just gotten my first girlfriend, but now its kinda unusual to not have had atleast multiple girlfriends.

[Perry]

How did you get these female friends?

 

Soooooo why can't you do the same thing(s) you did to become friends with them with other girls, but this time movew it up a notch by letting them be girlfriends?