Swimma51 Posted December 15, 2008 Posted December 15, 2008 So I'm a new member on this forum and here's my story: I met this girl and she's really awesome... i met her where she worked randomly when I was getting some shirts and she pretty much found out my name via my receipt. I got a call that night from some friends of mine to tell me to come over and meet someone. I did and it was her, and it was a great decision. Her and I hit it off really well and we talked for hours while watching tv. I started to really like this girl. Eventually we started seeing each other more and I asked her out and she said yes. We started seeing each other more but then all of a sudden it came to a halt because we're both in college and we both had a ton of work to do. It was a few weeks into me not seeing her and I knew that she had been really stressed out and depressed so I sent her some flowers as a nice gesture. She thanked me so many times for those, and my girl-friends say that she would remember that forever, which I hope will help me out. We would text occassionally and she's told me that she really feels comfortable around me and such and her friends tell me that she really does like me a lot. Thing is though that it's been about 2 months since I've seen her and I really miss her. I'm happy when I'm around this girl. I don't know if she's just blowing me off, but she will keep apologizing to me about not being around and I always say it's okay because I know she's been busy so I think about getting together another time. I admit that I did rush things a bit with her and I backed off for a while. Even her good friend told me that she was in a really serious relationship and the break-up was really bad. Also a guy at the beginning of the school screwed her over royally. I know she doesn't want to get hurt again and I wouldn't do that, and I am not looking for a relationship right now either but I just want to still see her and get to know her. But I really just don't know what's going on with her and I haven't spoken to her for a month on purpose with hopes that, now that we are on winter break because the semester's over, that she will call me so we can make plans, nothing major, but just to catch up. Honestly, I don't know whether I should just leave it be and move on, which I don't want to do because I am very content when I am around her and I like her a lot, or if I should just wait it out... Any help on this matter, because I don't have a lot of experience with women would be greatly appreciated.
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