bkaz01 Posted December 15, 2008 Posted December 15, 2008 so ithis will be short my ex broke up w me in september after 3 years and we have still been having sex ....last friday she changed her number and said she needed space but still talked to me on im and called me thursday(not even a week after she changed her number) night and came over and we hung out and had sex for 2 hours so here is my question if she is having sex with me does she still care about me and have feelings for me. and if she is having sex with me will it make it hard for her to move on if she actually wants to. and last do i still have a chance of being with her again down the road if she still wants to have sex what sucks is i want to talk to her so bad but i can not call her cause she called from a blocked number and i dont know it...also any ideas on how to getthe number when her friends or fam wont give it out
Dmoney28 Posted December 15, 2008 Posted December 15, 2008 honestly, i read your previous posts. She is using for sex bro. I'm going to be honest. She has a mental disorder. I was diagnosed with bi-polar 2 last year. I got help...psychologist and a psychiarist. She needs help. Dont mistake this for her wanting you back. If she loved you...and wanted you back, she would have NOT changed her # , 4 or 5 times.
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 15, 2008 Posted December 15, 2008 Is this a joke topic? Do you really need to ask??? Honestly the answer is already so clear that if I wrote it down on a sign and beat you unconscious with it, it still couldn't get clearer. You're being used as a tool. She definitely isn't going to respect you either. This is bad news. Have some dignity for goodness sake man
Author bkaz01 Posted December 15, 2008 Author Posted December 15, 2008 this is bull**** she said things to me thursday and said she missed me and this and that and still has not called..ladies help i know u got some answers if a girl has sex with a guy does it make them have feelings again whatthe hell i love this girl and want her in my life so bad
Geishawhelk Posted December 15, 2008 Posted December 15, 2008 ..ladies help i know u got some answers if a girl has sex with a guy does it make them have feelings again No. It just makes them have sex again. whatthe hell i love this girl and want her in my life so bad I wouldn't go there if I were you. because trust me, actually you don't. No, really. You don't. Look at you now. You're a wreck. What will you be like when you realise it was just to get her kicks, and you don't matter to her?
Author bkaz01 Posted December 15, 2008 Author Posted December 15, 2008 will she still want to have sex w me is tht what u are saying she will just call me when ever she needs it and other than that she just wont call
BCCA Posted December 15, 2008 Posted December 15, 2008 will she still want to have sex w me is tht what u are saying she will just call me when ever she needs it and other than that she just wont call Sort of, except she'll stop calling when she has another place to get it. Right now, she is in between boyfriends, not really able to jump right into something else, and not wanting to be a bar skank that screws any guy she can, so you'll fit the bill for an evening. Eventually, when she meets someone else she has an interest in, her use for you will be gone, and so will the phone calls you get and any other contact from her. She's using you to get by until she finds another relationship, be it another boyfriend or booty call.
Author bkaz01 Posted December 16, 2008 Author Posted December 16, 2008 this is killing me i wanna talk to her so bad
EYECANDY000 Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 sweetie, it sounds like she wants it to be over with you , but the sex is so comfortable , that she doesnt want to move on to someone new. So she feels like she can satisfy her 'hornyness" without the emotional attachment.. what you need to do it let her go.. unless you like being used.. but save your self the headache and heartache .. next time she calls, ignore her number.. and decline any sexual invites... clearly she has you hanging from a string, and shes probaly enjoying it...
Author bkaz01 Posted December 16, 2008 Author Posted December 16, 2008 i get that sign does her doing this with me make it harder for her to move on or is she over me completely
Author bkaz01 Posted December 16, 2008 Author Posted December 16, 2008 and another night nothin its so hard im so extremely depressed and just wish i could talk to her to clear things up i dont know her number its killing me
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