helend Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 in a nutshell - me and my ex were together for 2.5 years - lived together last year at university. left university this summer and both returned to our own homes, about 100 miles apart. we had generally a good relationship but bad arguments when drunk. during summer we started to argue a lot with distance and the transition from uni to post uni life. we had always planned to move to london together however in august he anounced he wanted a break. after a week - i decided 'lets call break off' - he agreed. then in september he dumped me - well it was mutual - i didnt feel he had time for me and he said he no longer looked forwards to seeing me and didnt love me anymore and that i deserve better?! however i wanted him back and he didnt- anyway we met up two weeks after we broke up and we flirted and kissed (it was like old times). he said it was great seeing me but messed with his mind?!? after this started to flirt over texted and he rang me twice a week - he kept saying he wanted me to visit him in london, missed seeing me, flirting a lot, etc. i did all the texting but he responsed very flirty and positively. anyway two weeks ago he told me that he was now seeing someone else?! i cant believe it - since then i have been doing no contact - i broke it to say sorry for shouting at him - and we exchanged a lot of texts that day - anyway since then (last wed) we have had no contact. advice i need is - How do i get over him? Do you think his new relationship could be a rebound - even though he dumped me - after all his flirting and positive communication - saying i was a fantastic gf and it was him being silly! Is there any hope for us - even though he is with someone else- i still dont get why it all ended - i thought we were great!!
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