DudleyATL Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 It's the holidays, I'm single (age 47) and perfectly happy to be that way and yet those about me feel the urge to pair me off with some loneliheart they know. Please stop. I like being single. I've been this way my whole life and it's how I prefer it. I realize it might make you feel better for me to marry or have a significant other but you have to realize: I'm happy being single. I have no desire to procreate nor do I have a desire to pair off with someone. I never have. I don't feel I'm missing being single. Why do you? [/end of rant]
cybersister Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 don't take it personally. No-one is out to get you. It's just that there are lonely hearts out there and your friends feel obliged to make at least a half hearted attempt on behalf of their singleton female friends. If they know you they are aware it is futile but to the female they will be seen to have made a attempt. And there are not that many single males they could try to pass he off onto.
Benique Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 Tell your friends ,you are happy single ,and single not always means alone. ________________________________ "Husbands and wives, who sincerely loved each other during their earthy lives,live together again , albeit the mode of communication is the thought, and not the speech."
crazy4you Posted December 20, 2008 Posted December 20, 2008 There's no problem with people staying single. I'm one of those guys that likes to be alone sometimes. As long as you're happy, don't even worry about what your friends think.
BobSacamento Posted December 22, 2008 Posted December 22, 2008 Who in their right mind would come to site like this a post this let alone make an account. It's irrational.
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