scholesy63 Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 but then last night had 2 vivid dreams about my ex which has brought it all back. In the dreams I was trying to get her back and talk to her and she was saying no... very vivid and just brought it all back. NC was good - just need to get back to it. Sorry just venting.................
Gremio Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 Let me join... haha I posted a thread a while back about having strong feelings for someone although we were not in a relationship. She ended up being flaky and did the disappearing game. I closed that part of my life. Now about thirty minutes ago, I was replying to a thread here and I told a part of the story about her... low and behold she just texted me (at 4am) to ask me something... after she disappeared two weeks ago and essentially blew me off by not calling me, responding to me, etc. The best part? I deleted her number yesterday, so when I saw the text, I didn't know who it was. I asked who it was and then realized it was her. She called me an ass.hole (I assume she then realized I deleted her number), and I basically chastised her for what she did then and now. Then I deleted all the texts so I don't have access to her number.
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 Ah, a vent topic, yes? I have dreams of my ex all the time. Dreams we are holding eachother and kissing and shes happy and making the cute noises when I hold her tight. I wake up and want to end my life. (I never would kill myself of course).
Eli_Peterson Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 What the heck is going on with you guys??!!! Why not be happy for what you had or if they really were hags be glad that you are rid of them? If you want them back in your lives then prove to them that they are missing out on the best catch that they ever had...if they're worth that! I am not trying to hurt you all but just showing you that in the state that you are in right now NO woman is going to want to spend time with you. I am sure that you used to be fun to be be around and you made her laugh and there was a time when she simply couldn't keep her hands off of you...and you stood tall and were full of confidence. You gotta get back to being that guy first of all! Even if she doesn't come back to you, you might be able to find a woman that is even better than her and how awesome will that be! "Sorry baby but I've moved on..." I just hate to see guys all broken up over the ending of a relationship and watch them do the things that guarantee that the "love of their life" will look at them and go "yep...made the right decision there."....she's freakin' wrong about you now prove her wrong! Again, sorry if this seems harsh, and I know that I've been there...God have I been there...but you gotta be strong guys
californiadreaming Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 Did you contact her? or what happened?
hereandnow Posted December 15, 2008 Posted December 15, 2008 Yeah, do dreams constitute breaking no contact. Haha. Whether they do or not I haven't been able to maintain NC. Oh well. I actually was kind of throwing prayers out the universe for a couple of nights, praying that I might have a dream that would tell me how to get back together with my ex gf. Well, I ended up having a dream where a vampire told me that if I were to let him turn me into one, I could just go and get her. So I'm a vampire now! But, seriously, I did have that dream.
RRyan65 Posted December 15, 2008 Posted December 15, 2008 Eli, you plagiarizing SOB! lol j/k. Good stuff.
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