SValentine Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 She ended our almost a year-long relationship close to 3 weeks ago, due to reasons unknown. Then she started texting me regularly again just when i was trying to get over her. She gave hints that she missed me, she subtly wanted to know if i still love her, sent me love song lyrics, sent me multiple postcards from overseas. I thought she still had some feelings for me. Then i heard from a mutual friend that she had this flame on with another guy, and that is has been going on for some time. Also hrd that they're going for a movie tgth when she gets back from her holiday overseas. I dont know what to do, i feel so helpless and betrayed. Not to mention used. Im kinda hurting now and i'd like to know what i shld do? Especially if she starts texting me again when she gets back.
alphamale Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 Not to mention used. Im kinda hurting now and i'd like to know what i shld do? Especially if she starts texting me again when she gets back. put her phone number on ignore or reject and then find someone else
marazul Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 of course you feel like that. She's using you for her ego, "wow! alll these men that can't forget me!" She has someone else so you find yourself another girl. Absolutely IGNORE her texts and calls, like if she's dead. That's life and if she doesn't understand that she will one day. take care
Eli_Peterson Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 I would say that she still does have feelings for you and you have a very good chance of winning her back if that is what you want to do. I wouldn't let her know that you were bereft of pining away for her trying to get over her though. I can guarantee that your silence is what brought her back around and she is having second thoughts. You can definately use this to your advantage, and I'm not talking about playing games but using that confidence that this has given you and running with it. Forget about what people are telling you about another guy etc etc etc....the choice is up to you and you are the only one that has to live with her so decide ahead of time whether you would want to continue on with the realationship if this is true but I wouldn't use it as ammo once you get her back. If you can forgive her them that is great...if not then cut her loose. What you need to do is get back to being the confident funny guy that she fell in love with....put aside all the garbage and questions that you have about what happened or if she is with another man and just be the happy, fun loving confident man that she fell in love with in the begining. It isn't going to be easy but you're a man and you can do anything that you set your mind to...if you have the confidence and self esteem that you once did... Thanks! Eli http://www.winyourgirlfriendback.info
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