hanginthere Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 Here's a question, I met a guy 3 wks ago, he lives an hour away from me. We have texted every day (almost) since our meeting and have texted photos and have gotten pretty flirty. He has come to see me once already. We have not discussed our age yet, just has not come up at all. But based on conversation, I am thinking I might be 10 yrs older. Like 32 to 42. I look like I am 32 and probably act like it, too! I like him but I know I have to bring this up to him. I am not sure how to do it...he will probably run...right???
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 He won't necessarily run. Why do you feel a need to bring it up? It's not like, "Must be this young to ride..." Who cares? Age is a number - it's about mentality. ExH was 15 years older than me. It wasn't the number that mattered to me - what bothered me was how he ACTED old sometimes. Otherwise, I usually didn't think about it. Just have fun and let him bring it up. It'll give you some indication how important it is to him (or quite possibly NOT).
Gremio Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 Just ask. If he is offended by it, then he isn't that intelligent.
Lizzie60 Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 Naahhh.. he won't run... My ex was 12 years younger.. I thought he didn't know my age.. but he did.. and he didn't mind. 10 years difference is nothing.
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