moys Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 I was doing so well but it ended today after three months. I sent him an email asking why he did it the way he did. My ex dumped me just by disappearing after 3 years together (2 together, 1 long distance), never returning calls and hanging up when I tried to call. I called him like 10 times the day I realized he dumped me and I didn't try to contact until today I feel terrible, I have that horrible sinking feeling in my stomach and I want to cry. I don't think he'll reply, but I'll have lost my dignity in the end.
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 Not sure what advice to give in this scenario. No matter what kind of person you are (i cannot determine judging by what little you've written), he shouldn't have done you like that.. Unless you cheated on him or something major. Which I don't think you did... because someone who would cheat, usually has a lack of emotion.. and you don't appear to be lacking emotion, based off what you described about sinking feelings/loss of dignity.
lonelygurl Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 My counselor told me yesterday that it doesn't matter why! What he did is wrong, but don't let it reflect on you. She told me that I (like yourself) need to work on healing myself and working through the pain of the loss and try not to get caught up into the why's of what he did or why he did it.
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