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Should I cut off his friends?


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We have some mutual friends - well they are more of his friends .

 

This one girl - I love her to death and we've hung out two or three times since the break up .

 

Somehow he is always brought up and we have these huge conversations and she just reminds me so much of him ... Should I go through my facebook and delete all his friends ... would it help me cope better ?

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Sometimes you have to cut yourself off. It might be a good idea to tell your mutual friends that you don't wish to discuss the ex at all. Keep those topics off limits for a while. If you find that the only thing you have in common with some of these friends is the ex, you may want to give yourself some space from them for a while.

 

I'm sure that if they are really good friends, they would understand that you need time to heal, and that any more discussing the ex with them could be a potential set back for you.

 

In short, do whatever you feel is necessary to promote the healing process.

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