Loss 4 words Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 this is driving me up the wall and i can't get it out of my thought process at all.... My GF is being really hot/cold lately...and I know what triggers it....she's all lovey-dovey when I'm around or when i say that i'm on my way but turns to ice cold when i want to take a day or even a couple of hours to myself and then she just shrugs me off...and it's really driving me to anger. Am i over reacting or is this normal ??
Rebellious Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 She wants more attention from you, so call her when you're not with her.
SingleAgain08 Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 Have you considered that maybe she is just trying to honor your space and not act clingy? When I'm with someone and they express a need for some alone time, I try not to act upset about it even if I feel a little let down because I know everyone needs space sometimes and it's no big deal.
motive2002 Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 Anybody's guess. For all you know, she could be worried that she might be coming on too needy, so she backs off whenever you need space to try and balance things out. Nobody wants to push the other person away. It could be a self defense mechanism of sorts. Don't read too much into it. If she's totally into you when you're together, then that's all you need to worry about.
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